Is it wrong not to want to share a room with your fiance before the wedding (read details b4 answering pls)?

Question

I'm getting married in a week and had to fly home to the West Coast for the wedding. As such, I'm staying at my parents house in my old bedroom. I know it sounds lame, but I am really enjoying being in my old room. Mom kept everything the same, so it's great.

The last several months of living with fiancee and being an "adult" make coming home and curling up in my old familar space that much sweeter.

Plus, I'm sleeping alone in my HUGE, cushy bed with my comfy pillow that I had totally forgotten about.

My fiancee is flying into town tommorow and will also be staying at my parents house for a few days. Mom and Dad don't care if we share either the guest room or my bedroom, but truth be told, I really don't want to.

The guest room is really nice with a King Size bed, window seat, enormous bathroom with a jacuzzi tub (minus the jets) and two sinks.

Is it wrong to ask her to stay in there? I could tell her that Mom and Dad prefer it.

Answer 1

No, it is not wrong, blame it on your parents! I think you guys should sleep in separate places before the wedding.  

Answer 2

I think it's great that you stay in your own room.

I don't think she'd be offended at all if you have her stay in the guest room. It will make the anticipation of the wedding more special!

Answer 3

Are you kidding me? You don't sound ready to be married if you prefer the comfort of mommy and daddy's that to being with your FI.

I can see not wanting to sleep in the same bed the night before the wedding, but come on...

Answer 4

Just tell her that if you don't share a room for these last few days it will make your wedding night that much more special.

Really enjoy these last few nights because there is no way your wife will fall for that again after you're married.  The only way you'll get to sleep alone in a bed is if you're in separate towns or fighting.

Answer 5

Put her in the guest bedroom.  Let her know you think she'll be more comfortable and relaxed there in her own space, and that you're just more comfortable with that arrangement as well.  This is your last week being single...I guess I kinda see it like a bachelor's party-it's your last night, so you do whatever while you still can, right?  Well this is your last week before you take a huge step into "manhood", so enjoy it while you can.

Besides, it'll make the wedding night even more special.

Answer 6

just explain to your parents that you would like her sleeping in the other room and that you want to be in your room before the wedding..

Answer 7

i think it's completely ok to say you miss your old bed, and the comfort of being home...But blaming that on your parents and not being honest with her right before the wedding..kinda seems immature to me! PLus i think it's very romantic to not want to sleep next to each other a few days before the wedding until the honeymoon. But not because the bed is HUGE and you miss it. I think you should just be honest and enjoy your time at mommy's and daddy's til the big day.

COngrats

Answer 8

tell her ur parents prefer it until after the wedding --  

Answer 9

dude stick her in the other room

enjoy the time you get in your old room to yourself  

Answer 10

hmm..if it is just because you enjoy being in your own bed by yourself it might be fine if you say to stay in the guest bedroom because you want one last night in your own room by yourself before staying in the same bed with her forever. but being a girl she may come in in the middle of the night to sleep with you.