Ok, I'm having this beautiful Autumn wedding in October of this year. It will be held in the mountains of West Virginia which is where I was born and raised. I now live in Florida and my MOH still lives up in WV. She told me that she is not very financially stable right now and asked me to help her with the cost of the dress. So I said sure and offered to pay for the whole dress and the shoes. My two Sisters still live up there and and they already have their dresses, so I told my MOH to just drive to their house (15 minute commute) and try on one of their dresses to get a better idea of what size I needed to order for her. She kept saying that she would go and then for some reason or another she wouldn't. She goes to visit her Mom a couple times a week and actually has to drive past my Sisters' to get to her Moms'. She asked me why it was so important to me because it's her dress! I said yeah, but it's my wedding! I didn't expect her to drop everything she was doing, but I asked her for almost 2 months if she would please go try it on! Not only that, but she wouldn't even return my calls most of the time. I would usually go a week sometimes 2 without talking to her. I hope I did the right thing. I just told her that she was no longer welcome in my wedding party but she is more than welcome to come to the wedding. I still sent her an invite.
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