My sister lives with her daughter and my mom in my moms one bedroom apartment. As you can imagine they are very tight living quarters, but my mom has gone away for 30 days to a treatment center to try to stop drinking. I have been having problems with my fiance, we are arguing 24/7 in front of our children, etc and I wanted to get away for a little while to clear my head. My mom said it was OK that I stay there and I talked about it with my sister and her only concern was the electric bill and grocery bill becoming more expensive. I offered to pay the difference and that we wouldn't be a burden it was just for my own sanity and to get my two kids out of the negative environment. She told me her boyfriend would be staying this coming weekend and so the bed wouldn't be available, but we talked about me borrowing an air mattress from somebody to solve that issue. All was in order until I called her today to say I was coming and she said I couldn't stay there when her boyfriend was there because she wanted her time alone with him. I told her my mom said it was OK and that I needed to get out of her, my fiance is a loose cannon (he got so upset the other day he threw his hunting knife and gashed a hole in our bedroom wall)... she said I would need to find somewhere else to stay though when her boyfriend is visiting. I got so upset because this is somebody she has only been dating for a month and she's already making him her #1, forget me (her sister) and my sons (her nephews) and just being really selfish and bitter about us coming. I told her I was coming anyways and she said "well I don't know how you'll get in, it's a good thing I have the key" and I lied to her and told her my mom would give me her set of keys if I want to go over there. She was being so nasty, and still even 3 hours later she's stuck to her guns, got my mom on her side now, and isn't letting me come anymore.
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