Is it wrong to be bisexual only because parents think its wrong?

Question

My grandmother is upset at the fact I like girls other than guys. Am I disrespecting her by doing this because I do love my grandmother.

Answer 1

It is wrong to act on your bisexual feelings.  Not because of what your parents say, but because of what God says.

Answer 2

Your social or private life should be kept separate from your family life especially so where your grand mother is concerned ,,,, If you don't want her knowing about this then don't discuss it anymore with anyone that might carry the news to her ,,,, Your social or private life is really no one else's business anyway ,,,,  Keep it that way and this should eventually melt away ,,,, //

Answer 3

Well yeah i think its wrong, and parents of course will say its wrong cuz their parents lol, well idk what to tell u cuz r u sure ur bisexual just try to find urself and see if u really are.

Answer 4

You should love whoever u want to love. Our parents cant dictate that for us. If u wanna be with a be a girl then be with a girl! Do what makes u happy, ur family should be supportive not critical. Just talk to them =]

Best of luck!

Answer 5

Your grandmother loves you and it will just take some getting used to. Just do what makes u happy. Dont change your slf for acceptence:)

Answer 6

You are not disrespecting your grandmother. I think it's very sweet of you to do think of her though and come on here. You can't pick who you like. This might just be weird for your grandmother too, because back in the day being bisexual wasn't very common. I would just not talk to her about it if it bothers her!

Answer 7

Depends on what you believe in.

If you are Christian or Muslim then homosexuality is considered a sin no matter how you try to look at it.

Answer 8

Some elders find this unacceptable because you know... some of their mind is old fashion but I'm not insulting them because I, myself also find it a little bit not right. However, I still know how much 'love' can do to a person. Do what you think is right.  

Answer 9

I feel you are bisexual because you enjoy both men and women.  Regardless, of what other people think, you will flow to the direction of your needs. Be it a man or a woman.

Answer 10

You have to be yourself , if that means liking girls then so be it .

You cant just change just because people dont like it , youre going to be faced with that no matter what the situation . Theres always someone who does agree with you

Answer 11

No it is not disrespecting her as a person it is Respecting who you are.

g*y ness has been in the public more in recient times but it was part of her youth also and admittedly she may have closed her eyes to it but it was there and I am sure some of her friends were and she knew it.

  Many of her Movie idols were G?L?B and a lot of Bussiness women

Were closeted. Go to a g/l/bi site and find celebs who were at her time  

Answer 12

I think it's wrong to be anything other than what you are.  If you like guys, or girls, or both, that's what you are, and you shouldn't deny it or fake it based on other people's reactions.

Answer 13

It's ok that is who your grandmother is.  Let her be who she is, don't deny being who you are either.  Live your life and try to respect your grandmother at the same time.

Answer 14

Just fake it to make Granny happy. Tell her you love guys. Never tell people what they don't want to hear. She won't understand that times have changed, even though there were bi-sexual people around when she was young. It's your life, but with family, just be cool.

Answer 15

Although your family may not agree with your decision to date persons of the same s*x, you can only live your life for you, and no  one else!!  Sorry Grandma!!

Answer 16

No. It's your life. Ever heard that saying "love is blind"? Well it is. Just do whatever - and whoever ;] - makes you happy.

Answer 17

No you're not disrespecting her. I'm bisexual also and I went through this long phase of denying who I am because I was scared of what people thought of me. In the end, I just got frustrated with MYSELF because there were these feelings I had and I couldn't tell anyone about it. Just be who you are and love whoever it is whether it's a boy or girl. If you spend your life worrying about what others think and whether it's "right or wrong" you're just going to make it that much harder for yourself b/c you won't be able to change it.  

Answer 18

Being bisexual is unnatural and wrong your grandmother wants you to be healthy and happy. Liking girls over boys is lesbianism, those that practice lesbianism will not get into God's kingdom. So your grandmother is also concerned for your soul.