Is it wrong to be boyish or easy said, a Tomboy

Question

hey, i'm 17 this year. And everyone is asking me when am i to change as in from a tomboy to a girly girl.

My answer would be "no way". It's not that i hate girly girls. I do have friends who are girlish but i totally respect them. But in my case, i just hate wearing dresses..or tight shirts bcoz it makes me look ugly. bcoz for an asian girl, i kinda have a broad shoulder and i'm abit muscular and i feel very comfortable in guys clothing. i hate make ups bcoz it my zits will come out if i wear them. And i hate shopping and also when girls start gossiping and talk abt guys all that kinda stuff. Its not as if im not attracted to guys or anything, its juz that i feel right now, i rather make friends than committing in a relationship. my friends or should i say my bestfriends are mostly guys. i talk like guys but im much more polite. i'm relax type of girl who likes to talk only if i wanna crack a joke or said something impt but not to gossip etc. My guy friends said it's totally alright to be me becoz i understand them better and most of them come to me when they need advise and all that. They said that they like me bcoz of who i am and im not acting to be one of those girly girls. And im totally happy with that. But my female friends are not very happy with it. and im so sick of my mum and some ppl who kept on pushing me to change. They are too afraid i may become a butch or something. So what should i do?

Answer 1

ofcourse it isnt ! b what u want !  

Answer 2

No it's definitely not wrong. But you have to know when to draw a line in being a tomboy. For example, when you're with your female friends, don't talk about things they don't know about like the things you talk about with your guy friends... stuff like cars, sports and stuff like that. You also have to fix up every now and then. But don't change who you really are because of that. Tons of luck and I hope this helps!

Answer 3

There is no harm in Tomboy style, if it suits to your personality and your habits.

While being a Tomboy-type you can face some situations which sometimes will compell you to rethink about your personality.

In India the adoptablility as well as culture still not much modern.

So while being a Tomboy, be ready to face several challenges like this.

Also one more thing is of most important in this context which is that "the Tomboy-personality in most of the cases is natural. One can not adopt or reject  by her own"

Answer 4

stay that way, although the guys clothing thing might be a bit much, but stay the same never the less, because your who you want to be and who your comfortable with being not a piece of dough to be molded into somebody's liking. stay the same  

Answer 5

Well maybe a little liner wouldnt hurt