Is it wrong to become too friendly with a married man if you are a single woman the same age?

Question

will that wreck his family?

Answer 1

not right away...but it may wreck you as well, just matter of time.age is not important...Although any man can lead you to it...not just married...so prognosis is not bright in any case...and not for you only...

Answer 2

As myself, if the married man is worth to u and everything,then its okay. He lets u into his life in the first place. Not to blame his wife's bla bla bla, but he has reasons to take the 'closer action' to other woman outside his marriage, whoever she is. I say Feelings can NEVER be blamed on or judged. Its the process n n the result that would make people took action as we called society matters.

Answer 3

YES. It gives men the wrong idea,

and women will think of you as a w***e.

                                            THE END.

Answer 4

The key word in this is TOO-- anything that is TOO much of anything is probably a definite NO!  The bigger question is-- what equates being too friendly.  Really anything you would not want your boyfriend or spouse to do and anything you would not do with that person's spouse present.

Answer 5

Yes.

Answer 6

Read "Soul Mates and Twin Flames," Elizabeth Clare Prophet.

The wife and children have feelings, too.

Answer 7

Unfortunately, that is what is most likely to happen, because people are unable to accept that  a man and a woman of the same age-group can be friendly without any romantic relationship. As I said, very unfortunate because it deprives them of enjoying natural compatibility of ideas and thoughts between them without raising eyebrows.

Answer 8

Monogamy is old fashioned, to say the least.  It should really be re-examined by society, but until then..

A: If YOU don't want it to go any farther then casual converation, then it's perfectly fine to be friends.  Everyone needs friends, ESPECIALLY married guys with shrew wives :)

B: If this guy wants to have lovers outside of his marriage, then he'll have lovers whether you're one of them or not.  Even if you sleep with him, YOU are not wrecking his family.  The family is all on him and his wife. :)

So, either way, if he's a good guy and you think it's worth the potential drama, go for it :)  You can't have too many good and useful friends :)

Answer 9

Of course. Duh.  

Answer 10

Yes, closely like togetherness, unintentional body contacts, breeds mutual attraction, temptation, and fault.

Answer 11

do u want to be  in her (his wife) place  ?

Answer 12

Yes!  Cause it could cause unwanted desires to emerge.

This would cause bad feeling's and could cost his relationship with his wife to fade and stir up unwanted feeling's for you and cause him to want to take this so called friendship further.

So you need to be careful when being single around married men and being to friendly toward them.

They can take your friendship much differantly than what you may think and not only that this can cause jealousy to stir up in the wife and if you are honest and don't want this then you need to back off.

find someone who is single and be friends with them,that way only the one of you will get hurt in the long run or can leave each other's company without hurt feeling's.

Answer 13

The potential to wreck his family is definitely there. Men and women naturally attract each other.  So, no matter what you think you are feeling, the inevitable is bound to happen.  Do you want to be responsible for wrecking somebodies marriage because of a lack of discretion?  Have some self control and put some distance between you and this man.  Find a new friend whose single before it's too late.  In other words, do the right thing.  Don't think only about yourself.

And, before you think you have enough self control not to fall into temptation, think again.  Individuals are rarely in-control of how they live their day to day life, let alone acts of passion.  Do you think you can honestly contend with your own passion?  You can't, not with years of self-discipline.  

Answer 14

HI, Cactus.

It can be a very tricky situation. If you truly like him as a friend. I would try to get close to the whole family. That way his wife is on threatened by you. You may even become closer to the wife.

Otherwise, It will cause problems. You really do not want to get involved in that type of situation.

Examine your feelings. Is it friendship or something else?

Good luck!

ruthie

Answer 15

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YES thats really tight to do something like that..

sorry but its a bit sad you dont know the answer to that

Answer 16

I think you know the answer to your question.

Answer 17

dont flatter yourself hunny. if he is going to cheat it would probably be with some younger chick...

whos to say he would even wreck his family for a homewrecker?