Is it wrong to break up with the person ur with for someone else that ur crazy about ?

Question

ok im in love with this guy and i really want to go out with him but im kinda committed to thisd one guy. is it wrong if i dumped him for the other guy

Answer 1

You are better off letting the guy you are with go now, than to lead him on. It is obvious you are going to leave him eventually, so do it and maybe you both will be happier. Maybe he has someone else in mind as well.

Answer 2

That depends on what you think really. Are you really that much in love? Look, every relationship (or at least most of them) end eventually. I have to ask whether you're willing to end this one you're in right now over some guy that you might dump for someone better in a few months. If it's not like that and you just love the guy more than your current boyfriend, then forget what I said and just go for it. But break up with your boyfriend first.

Answer 3

Are you in love, or are you in lust?  there is a difference.  

You really should break up with the guy you're semi-committed to now.  At least give him the courtesy of a heads up that there's someone else in the picture.  

You can't help who you love, but you should try to be somewhat kind about it.

Answer 4

Well, even though it's frowned upon by most people, you really help it now can you? I personally think that it would be unfair to the person you are seeing if you are just with him because you feel like you have to be. I think that both of you deserve to be in a healthy relationship where both two people care about each other, not just one. If you like someone else, then I don't think you should continue your other relationship. It's unfair to both of you.....and you should follow your heart. Good luck....and I hope everything works out! :)  

Answer 5

I think its okay to dump them for someone that you you love. If you don't have feelings for the person your dating currently, you shouldn't just use him. Go and date someone that you do have feelings for.