My birthday is coming up soon and I was going to have a group of about 17 girls go out to dinner.
It wouldn't be a fancy dinner maybe olive garden or applebee's something not overly expensive. After dinner we'd go and hang out at one of my friends' houses. Is it wrong for me to have them pay for their own meals? The average meal is from 8 to 9 dollars so I don't think it is overly expensive. It's just that there is no way I can afford to pay for that many people plus special drinks(soda,etc.) and then include a tip. Should I just offer to pay for the drinks? or Offer to pay for maybe 5 dollars or so of their meal?
I have talked to 2 of my friends that are going and they don't think that it'd be a huge deal to make other people pay for their own meal. By the way, most of my friends don't have jobs since we're still in highschool.
So what do you all think, is it rude for me to ask them to pay for at least part of it and still expect a gift?
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