Is it wrong to m********e at 13?(men only please)?

Question

well im 13 and m********e 1-2 a day now school started, and is it wrong? also should i ask my dad for the s*x talk, because he never gave me one! Also what was it like to change in front of other guys in the locker room?

Answer 1

This is something you should ask your dad, if you have a good confidence with him, then you should be the one who starts the conversation....

It is normal to have changes at that age, Dont worry bout wot the others say, it's just you... noone else...

Answer 2

Like the first person stated, you should ask your dad about these things and definetely ask him about s*x, for he can be of more help than anyone online. There's nothing really wrong with masturbating, but it really comes down to lust, which is probably the reason you m********e, but almost all males and females do it. There's nothing to worry about changing in front of other males, for everyone has the same problem. Just quickly change and get out. Girls experience this same problem when they first begin. Sure, it'll feel odd at first, but you'll adjust as you get to know the people. Hope this helps.

Answer 3

If its wrong then i've been a bad boy. i started at the age of 12 maybe even 11.  Its fine and FUN!

Answer 4

No it's normal.

Answer 5

Well I'm not a man. I'm 13 like you and I m********e at least twice a day. There's nothing wrong with it.

I never got a s*x talk but I think I'm learning enough from books and friends and the internet. You can ask your dad but he might be too embarrassed.

Don't worry about changing in front of guys in the locker room. They are doing it too. If you just dont think about it, you get used to it real fast.

Answer 6

just wear boxers or a long shirt nobody will look ok

Answer 7

Masturbation is not wrong at all. It's one of the most natural things on this earth.

Yes you should you're dad about the s*x talk you're old enough you should know about those things.

Changing in front of guys in a locker room isn't a big issue. It's not like everyone is watching you. Everyone probably feels the same way you do.

Answer 8

IT is not wrong to m********e, you should be OK.

Answer 9

No it's not wrong, it's perfectly normal... just don't do it too much or your p****r will fall off.

Hahahaha jk, but yeah if you do do it, do it in moderation.

When I changed in the locker room I didn't really care, because my p***s size is fine, I'm not self concious, but at the same time I don't go swingin my junk around at every opportunity I get.

Answer 10

I started at 11 so I don't think anything is wrong.....just wear boxers but if u mean like...the showers then I don't take a shower with other dudes....mad unconftable

Answer 11

Yes, you should tell your Dad that you would like to have a personal talk with him sometime when the two of you are alone and no one else is around.  Tell him you won't to hear about some things from him and not from guys at school who may not know what they are talking about.

If your Dad does not want to go into too many details, ask him if he can buy you a book written for teenage boys about s*x.

In the locker room, just concentrate on changing your clothes without worrying about what other guys are seeing or what they are doing.  You don't have to rush through it but then again you don't want to dilly-dally either.  You will see them naked, they will see you -- so what.

It is not wrong to m********e but you should try, once school starts, to really concentrate on your studies and the sports you are good at and not think constantly about masturbating.  However, young guys like you have lots of 'raging hormones' so thoughts of this will come from time to time, even if you concentrate a lot on other matters.

If you have a good relationship with your Dad, ask him to be frank with you.  Also, ask him if it's OK with him if you ask questions that might seem stupid but for which you need to know the answers.  There really are no stupid questions, only stupid answers.

Answer 12

There's nothing wrong with masturbating, unless it starts to affect your life negatively (ie, not going out with friends anymore, and just sitting at home tugging yourself off).

I never got a s*x talk, I pretty much just found it out for myself, didn't really need one. He may be planning to give you one, just perhaps feels you haven't reached the age to give it. If your starting to get curious by all means ask him.

I worried about changing infront of others when I was your age, now I really dont care, it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. Its easy enough just to keep a towel round yourself if you don't want your tackle on show.

Answer 13

If you're having the urges to m********e, then yes, it is completely normal.  There's no right or wrong amount to do it.  It's up to you.

Yes, if your dad hasn't talked with you already, then it's ok for you to ask him.  I strongly encourage you to do that.

As for the locker room/showers in gym, Almost everyone is uncomfortable with group nudity - at first.  Within a week or two, you won't think anything of it.  

If you're concerned about your size, there's going to a huge range of small to large and no one will be unique.  I had to start the group shower thing in 7th grade and continued through college.  I never saw anyone ridiculed because of their size - and no one was smaller than me as I was a very late bloomer.  

If you're concerned about erections, just remember that it's normal and anything can cause arousal in teen boys.  Of all the group showers I took, I was only aware of two guys having erections and they were both ignored.  No one made a big deal of it.

I remember stressing over this when I was your age.  It turned out that it was all in my head - just like it is in your's.  Just go with the flow and don't make a big deal out of it.

And BTW, it doesn't do any good to say "Men only".  There are girls your age that think that reading books or copying answers is enough to give advice to guys like you.   Imagine how pervy it would be if a guy your age was giving a 13 year old girl advice on masturbating or her period.

Answer 14

hey gabby, men only? dumb broad. no its not wrong to m********e at 13.

Answer 15

It is not wrong at all

Answer 16

It's perfectly normal to m********e. If you want it now, ask your dad about the "s*x talk." There isn't much to changing either, once you get used to it and you are comfortable enough with your body.