Is it wrong to not want kids?

Question

i am saying now i dont want kids is it wrong ti not want kids cause i really dont want any!

Answer 1

Jamican wify is right.

Thats very important.

But yeahh, its okay to feel that way(:

Not wrong at all.

I use to want kids, now Im not so sure anymore.

If I ever decided that I wanted kids I would most likely adopt, but thats just me.

Everyone sees things differently.

So never doubt yourself being wrong about your own opinion.

Answer 2

More people should feel this way. Too many people have kids and don't take care of them.

Answer 3

nope.

Answer 4

As the Mom of 5 I can say don't have kids if you have the slightest doubt about parenting.

You are no less of a person or no less of a woman for being smart enough to live your own life child free.  

Be prepared with some witty zinger answers for when nosey people ask you why you haven't started a family yet.

Make sure you get a life partner or husband that wants to remain child free as well.

I wish more people were able to realize that they don't have to have kids, it would be better for the kids not to have parents that aren't prepared.

Answer 5

NO, NOT ALL....PERFECTLYUNDERSTANDABLE....SOME PEOPLE ARE MENT TO HAVE KIDS, AND SOME PEOPLE JUST NOT..

Answer 6

It's not wrong for you to not want kids. Not everybody wants to become a parents. There are some people with kids that should never be allowed to reproduce because they're such awful parents.

I also do not want kids. I never really did. I like kids they're cool and cute - but for me it's other people's kids and not to be cocky, but kids love me. I don't know why, but I guess it's because I'm easy to talk to and I like to act like a kid myself sometimes and play dolls and color and do arts and crafts. I guess they mostly like me when I play my flute for them.

However, I always wanted to pursue my dream career and I think it would be selfish of me to have kids that I wouldn't have time to take care of, or kids I wouldn't be willing to put time for them.

Like some other person stated above make sure your husband or your signifigant other (I'm saying this because not everyone believes in marriage) knows that you don't want kids.

But like I said, it's not wrong at all. Some people have a desire to have children and others don't.

Answer 7

no its not wrong, but when you get a husband, please ,make sure thats what he wants to, its not going to work if he wants one and you dont.

Answer 8

I don't think so. I don't want kids either. That may change when I'm older, but I doubt I'll ever really want them anyway. =/

Answer 9

You are not done becoming who you will be. You can only say that "at this time you do not want kids." Perhaps in the future,  you will change your attitude and your views on the situation. You are not whom  you will become.

Of course , You may still not want kids.

Answer 10

Not at all and I have four of them. Not every body was meant to be a parent, if you feel you don't want kids, then you don't.

It would be bad if you didn't and still did, you would not be very happy. Don't let any body else change that. You see all these people having kids and not caring for them right. Not saying you would do that.

However you know what you want more than anybody else.

In the end it is your choice and whether it is to have them or not it  doesn't make you an awful person!

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