Is it wrong to use nice guys for s*x?

Question

Or would they not object, do you think? :-)

Answer 1

I don't think it's wrong as long as the "using" is mutual. It's only wrong if you give him the impression that he's in for more than a one night stand. As long as you make it clear that it's just s*x and you want nothing more, I don't see the problem.

Answer 2

If it can end in s*x, NOTHING is wrong. It goes the other way too. I stop at nothing until I get it from the nice girl. :-)

Answer 3

No, Please, use us! We can't get enough s*x

Answer 4

If you're desperate, it's better to use your fingers. They won't tell anyone and you won't get a reputation as a slag. Word soon gets around, you know.  ;-)

Answer 5

If the guy knows that it is just s*x, no biggie...but to use anyone for anything is just wrong.

Answer 6

who says nice guys finish last hahaha

Answer 7

It's wrong to use anyone for s*x actually!

Answer 8

You must be pretty desperate if you need to use anyone for s*x. All you,ll get is desperate sordid s*x, if that,s your bag, go for it.

Answer 9

as long as it's just s*x, no emotional stuff until you demonstrate the need for s*x, I will not put out any emotional stuff until I'm sure you are serious about s*x.

Answer 10

use the bad guys, the nice guys will get attached too easily,

and its unlikely that they'll show you the firm hand that you need, Eleanor

Answer 11

It's not using as long as they know that they're there for sexual purposes. If you're leading them on and they think that they have a shot at you for marriage/LTR,  then it's wrong.

Trust me, guys can get attached and develop emotions for women in casual relationships too!   I think these "nice guys" have a higher chance of falling for you..

Answer 12

As long as you're clear about where it's going, and you both want the same thing. If he actually wants more, then you'll end up hurting him, which is never good. If he's truely fine with it, then no one's getting hurt, so no problem.

Answer 13

just be straight up with them & tell them you're just using them for s*x.  somehow I don't think your chances for a bootycall will diminish by being honest.

Answer 14

If they know thats the case then just go for it

Answer 15

Don't worry, Eleanor...

You'll never have that problem.

Answer 16

Only if you're dishonest with them.

Answer 17

I used a lot of men for s*x when I was young, but leaping from man to man "like the chamois of the alps" as P.G. Wodehouse put it, takes it out of you eventually.

Answer 18

s*x is just that s*x but i think you'll find that nice guys always want more than just s*x they want the closeness that comes with it. So to get a nice guy to have s*x with you probably means he's expecting something more no matter what you tell him and how straight you are with him. nice guys tend to beleive that the women they want wouldn't just use them. You'll find that the most callous and cruel men in the world the one's that can totally srcew you up and rip your insides out are those same nice guys who hardened up through being used and dropped.

Answer 19

Just make sure they know what you are after.

You just want s*x- tell them that.

You don't want anyones poor heart getting stomped on :( Aww

Answer 20

I am a nice guy and I can tell you that for sure I would love to be  used by a pretty woman for s*x.

Answer 21

It is wrong to use anyone for s*x, especially nice people.

Answer 22

Oh, Elle, you s***k you!

Answer 23

Your reasons being? Please expand on this question.

Answer 24

no, if you want bad s*x, go ahead use them!

Answer 25

When it comes to s*x a guy is a guy.

  Just because us nice guys are nice doesnt mean we are less sexual.

Answer 26

This is halarious and the replies are sexist.

If the question is, "Is it wrong to use nice girls for s*x" It would be so wrong wouldn't it now?