Is lingerie that important?

Question

who here thinks lingerie is an essential ingredient to a happy relationship?

Answer 1

It stimulates a man's mind, taking him to fantasy island..lol! Try this: welcome your man home with white granny panties one day and see his reaction. The next day, welcome him home with a hot red lace thong and stockings. The reactions will be very different...

Answer 2

Essential? No. Some guys think there is nothing sexier than a woman wearing one of his shirts.

Answer 3

not unless it is of the d********x variety....

Answer 4

I don't think it is a necessary ingredient to a happy relationship.I do believe it can help add flavor and spice if it satisfies. It's like cake with or without icing.Either way the d**n cake taste good.Add some icing and it's even better!

Answer 5

I think it is important to dress to entice your partner, but that doesn't have to be lingerie. Personally, I have never liked the nylons and garters look. I prefer plain white bikini panties or hip huggers. My wife will wear just a tshirt that comes to mid butt. That drives me crazy. There is also something very s**y about just a towel wrapped around her. You asked, I answered.

Answer 6

In my honest opinion, Lingerie is not essential, but it does help in more ways than what are offered in other answers, For example I am not in a relationship, But I do like wearing my share of lingerie, lol, Now for myself it is an essential in my life, I try almost every night to wear some lingerie item to bed and sleep in, it is just so relaxing and feels so good, Oh Yea- I am a Crossdreser, Still private, never really "came out" to anyone, so I just keep it home and private. There are many males in the world that wear lingerie and female attire, and NO That does NOT mean we are g*y, Most are heterosexual, and true many are bi-  

Answer 7

no it is not but it contributes to a good bedroom( s*x) relationship  , therefore a happy relationship but i dont make a big deal out of it .  it is once in while thing for me  

Answer 8

It depends on what gets your husband off.  Pardon me for being a little crude here but men generally tend to be very visual creatures.  My hubby likes little lingerie outfits.  In my marriage, keeping our s*x life exciting is important and so lingerie is important but it could be different for someone else.  Whatever floats your boat.

Answer 9

Why bother, it's just coming off anyway! Try naked!

Answer 10

no it is not, the husband will love you for who you are, not just his fantasies  

Answer 11

"Essential"?

No.

(Oh wait, I have stock in Victoria's Shoddily Made Secret. I mean YES!)

Answer 12

yes!! to tease him..a good male friend said that to me..

he does not like vulgarity..a little showy is better for the imagination..

Answer 13

who doesnt.. thats the best part to spice up  in bedroom....

Answer 14

Men are men they don't really care what your wearing they just want it off,  but something flashy never hurt either.

Answer 15

No way.  It's so expensive, some of the contraptions take awhile to hook up and figure out how to put on for what maybe a minute until it's on the floor.  And then you have to have a lot of cute outfits, can't wear them over and over.  I would say no, my fiance and I are fine without them.

Answer 16

of course