Is masturbating wrong?

Question

I m********e at least 5 times a day. i really enjoy it but i think i may have a problem. My gf thinks i should see a doctor to get checked up. Even at work i sometimes m********e when no ones looking. im afraid my boss may catch me doing it and then get fired. I really hope not though, i really like being llibrarian. what should i do?

Answer 1

1. nothing wrong with it

2. DON'T DO IT IN PUBLIC!!!!

3. you a gf who can make you feel better

4. see a GP to get over this addiction because it could ruin your love life

Answer 2

There is nothing Wrong with masturbating.  I think it is healthy. Becareful at work.  That's not a good thing. But Tell your girl, she should be happy you are doing that and not sleeping around...I sell s*x toys  and we do sell a pocket p***y..that mite help you  Good Luck

Answer 3

The first thing you should do is STOP masturbating at work! If you get caught, not only will you lose your job, you'll risk getting sued for sexual harassment.

Answer 4

Masturbation is normal. Masturbating at work is not. You may have an addiction. Please see a counselor or doctor.

Answer 5

It is absolutely fine as long as you do it on your own time and it does not interfere with your life. If it does then you might have a bit of an addiction.  

Answer 6

Masturbating isn't wrong but there is a time and place for it and work isn't one of those places

Answer 7

you have a problem! shame on you god is watching!

Answer 8

There is nothing really wrong with it. If you need excitement in your life try strip clubs or have a guys night out or something. You are a librarian? I don't think you would want a kid to walk in on you. That would be embarrassing. If you are sexually active than maybe have s*x more often to fulfill your needs. I don't know what else to tell you.

Answer 9

Masturbation is normal and healthy unless it starts disrupting your life. 5 times a day doesn't sound too excessive but the risk of getting caught doing it at work is dangerous. If you want to keep your job and save yourself some embarassment, stop doing it at work. It can be like any other addiction- you need to find something to take your mind off the craving. If you can't control your need to m********e, it may be time to see your doctor and find out why you need to do it so much. But if you can stop doing it at work, I think you'll be fine. Good luck!

Answer 10

What you should do?

Focus on other things then on your p***s.

This behavior can lead to serious problems later in life.Erectile Dysfunction ,just to mention one.

Is that what you want then proceed doing what you are doing.

I would cut it back to a maximum of three times a day.

Space

Answer 11

Do it in your own time.

It's not harmful, it's just not something to do in polite company.

Answer 12

Firstly, I don't think masturbation is wrong. However, I think that if you are doing it at work and for that many times a day, then you probably need some help. I would suggest seeing a doctor just to make sure firstly that you are not doing any damage to yourself.

The other thing you have to ask is whether you are truly enjoying it or whether it has simply become an obsession. An obsession is defined as: "an unhealthy and compulsive preoccupation with something". You have to ask yourself, honestly, whether your habit is creating problems for you. It sounds like it may do unless you either cut down or cut it out altogether (as harsh as that may seem).

I hope you can find the help you need to regulate things so they don't cause problems for you at work or home. All the best :-)

Answer 13

There's nothing wrong with masturbating, but doing it well at work is a bit extreme. Especially if you are a librarian. I hope you don't work around children. Get some help from a s*x addict group or something.

Answer 14

You have killed a lot of kittens if you add it up.  

Answer 15

if lovin me is wrong, I don't wanna be right.

but, 5 times a day is a bit much.  you really neet to show some self control.

Answer 16

is not wrong but at work?! your addicted and 5 times daily?! yep your addicted you gonna break your thang lol

Answer 17

Ewwww you work in a library and you mastrubate???Then you touch all those books??Yuckkkkkk you are a freak

Answer 18

well...you might need to SLOW DOWN!!!but no,masturbating isn't wrong because you know what turns you on and it's alot safer than if you were with a partner due to the fact of STI's(sexual transmitted infections),pregnancy and things like that...so no just slow down a bit and wit until you're alone and in quiet and confortable place...hey,get your girlfriend to join in the fun!!good luck!!SLOOOOOOOOOW DOOOOWN A BIT THOUGH

Answer 19

Masturbation feels great, but it makes you crazy. Crazy for s*x.  It also decreases your energy levels, and ultimately takes up a lot of time in your day, esp. if you are at 5 gasms/day.  This time could be spent enriching your life.  All that masturbating distraction can lead to decreased IQ levels.

Answer 20

its natural but 5 times a day is probably over doing it

i know your joking  im conan conan know

Answer 21

i heard that over masturbating can cause in infertility in future, try to control yourself and get engaged in other stuff that can distract you from masturbating again.  

Answer 22

To much masturbating lowers bioelectric level in your parasympathetic nervous system and causes your erection to not get as "hard" as it could be. If you want to be with your girlfriend with a limp member.... by all means continue on. If you want to be at your fullest (no pun intended) try to slack off a little and restrain from pleasuring yourself and let your girlfriend do it for you. I think you'll find once or twice a day is good too. Doing it at work is a little strange, I mean I know allot of men do do that but it may seem like the act (for you) of doing it there is what turns you on not the o****m, and for that maybe you do need help.

Answer 23

yeah, it's normal but not too much, you have to control your self and have time management on it.. and Don't do it 5 times a day... You may have some disease about it. Don't do it on public.

Answer 24

i had the same problem but in the past

after that i stopped it

cuz i was like an idiot

and my girlfriend helped me

so try to stop it

Answer 25

masturbating is not wrong. but it should be something you do in private, without the risk of someone catching you. at least try not to do it at work...that's a bit risky.

Answer 26

You have a psychological addiction to it and you have problems. NO ONE masturbates that much and not have it affect them

Answer 27

Masturbating itself is not wrong.

Five times a day is probably on the upper side of normal.

The issue is that you do it at work and that you may have difficulty curbing your enthusiasm.

I get horney when get near attractive women but i just put the thoughts into my spank bank and wait til I get home.

Part of growing up is discretion, or not acting spontaneously on all your urges.

Answer 28

It sounds like you just need to learn to have some self control.  I mean there is nothing wrong with masturbating but doing it 5 times a day and in public is not quite right.  so maybe you should talk to someone like a therapist and maybe they can help you learn to channel that need to m********e with something else.

Answer 29

It is not good to be so addicted to it that you can't control yourself even at work. You do have a problem if you can't stop yourself. You should go see a doctor because you probably will end up losing your job and maybe even more than that.

Answer 30

no it's not wrong i used to **** 15 times a day every day it just means you have a high s*x drive keep it up and yes i do were very thick glassless

Answer 31

Nothing wrong with masturbating but don't be a jerk and do it in public.