Is my Parent wrong for this???

Question

my friend was smoking weed with this boy but he put something in it that made her face numb so she was in the hospital for 2 days... but this was like 3 weeks ago... and now i wanna sleep over her house and her mom is going to be home but my mom will not let sleep overher house because she thinks something is going to happen but she lets me go over there everyday??? IS MY MOM WRONG

Answer 1

Your mom's not wrong.  She's just trying to protect you from hanging out with the wrong people.

It's hard to understand right now, but when you get a little older you will.

I'm not even a parent, but life has taught me a few lessons, and now I understand why my parents did what they did.

Answer 2

Hunny, just be happy you have parents..Seriously, im 21, and never had parents, and wish everyday that I did, although at your age our outlook on that **** is different, If i did have parents like you, I wouldnt have ended up, lets say going through, or having happening what has happened to me,, ya no.. There just tryin to protect you.. Sometimes yea they can be over paranoid, but give it some time, and they'll relax on that, and start to trust your friend again, ya know.. Just give it time.. But no their not wrong for it at all...

Answer 3

She's a parent. Sometimes they might overreact but all they're trying to do is protect you

Answer 4

i think ur mam is a smart  women . also , i think u should stop talking to ur friend  for ever because i think she will make u  get in alot of problems .

i hope i helped

good luck  

Answer 5

No.  It's a little to soon after the incident for you to be asking to go to a sleep over I think.  Give your mom some time.  Something like that could come as a shock to a parent.  Plus...your friend smokes weed.  I think your mom is just worried about you.  Listen to her this time.

Answer 6

I would not allow my kid to be friends with someone who smokes weed. I would not allow her to sleep over at her house. She is not a suitable friend.

Answer 7

yes and no . .becasue it is unfare for her to say that because your frind did it that your are going to.. and no because she loves your very much and just dosnt want your to get hurt or in trouble

Answer 8

Your mom is just scared that something like that could happen to you. Obviously, your mom now knows that your friend smokes weed. Shes probably not to crazy about that. She still lets you hang out with her, so that's good. She's just worried about being in the house all night, because obviously her mom is gonna fall asleep. She could also think "well her mom didn't notice that her daughter was doing that.. so how would she know if my daughter did it with her" type thing. There's so many things that could cross her mind and make her worry. She's just being a mom. She's not "wrong", she's just being careful. Just give her a little more time, and tell her to trust you, regardless of what other people are doing. Good luck!  

Answer 9

no she isnt. she is actually doing what alot of parents don't do and should. if you were my daughter, you wouldn't even visit, let alone stay the night. i wouldn't mind if she stayed with us, though. regardless of your friends mishap with weed, that doesn't change the fact that she chose to smoke it in the first place. she made a bad decision, and the way kids get started in these things is by having friends that do it.

you mom is letting you visit, becuase she probably knows how much this friend means to you. she isn't letting you stay the night, because it takes your mothers control out of her hands. at least if you visit, you will be home and she knows there isn't time when the friend is away from parents and can choose to do something she shouldn't with you there. kids do alot of things when parents are asleep overnight.and i am sure everone that answers this question would agree with me.

i know you don't want to hear any of this, but that is what being a kid is sometimes about. being mad because your parents do what is right about protecting you.

Answer 10

No she's just worried. It will take some time for her to build up the trust she had for your friend. Just give it time and don't let your friend do stupid stuff that will make your parents not like her.

Answer 11

i'm not sure about this one...but your mom is probably worried that she cant trust your friend's mom

Answer 12

No she's not. First, she's your mom. If your friend feels she's responsible enough to smoke weed, she should responsible enough to chose decent friends. Weather you like it or not, your mom loves you & just wants to make sure you're okay.

Answer 13

Your mom is absolutely correct!  Would you let your daughter spend the night at a known drug addict's house -- someone who lets other people put even worse stuff in her drugs?  Come on -- think about it from her point of view.  She is trying to keep you alive!

Answer 14

no, she just cares about you. believe me don'y be mad at her. in a little while she might feel better. but the incident prolly scared her. she just wants to protect you

Answer 15

Your mom is trying to protect you.  Clearly your friend has poor judgement to begin with (smoking weed).   Just because this questionable friend's mom will be home doesn't mean that good supervision will take place. (Was mom home when the smoking was taking place?)

Offer a compromise -- ask if your friend can sleep at your house -- that way your mom can get to know her better, and your mom can supervise the two of you in a way that would make her comfortable.

Your friend make a stupid mistake, unfortunately there are ALWAYS consequences for those types of decisions, this is just one of them.

Answer 16

I understand she's just trying to protect you however...

She needs to stop sending mixed messages. If she let's you over there everyday then she needs to let you spend the night. That or end it all together.

Answer 17

No .. Your Mom is right ..  If you want a sleep over do it at your house.  You see, your Mom can not do anything if you get yourself in trouble at your friends house.  

Be thankful that she said no,  you will appreciate it in 10 to 20 years.

Answer 18

Shes paranoid and has every reason to be.  Young people don't seem to understand how one wrong thing can damage a parents trust for a long time.  Three weeks is nothing.  In a few months, she may still be worried, but lighten up.  So, as long as you don't do anything to break her trust again in the next few months, you may be given some more freedom to hang out with certain people again.  But you need to understand that it is a parents job to make sure that nothing happens to you and she is only trying to protect you because she loves you so much and the thought of anything bad happending to you destroys her emotionally.

Answer 19

Your Mom is worried something will happen to you.

Be thankful you have a Mom that cares.

Answer 20

No, your mom has a right to be concerned. If your friend was smoking weed, your mom doesn't want you to go over to her house because she could influence YOU to smoke weed. And even if her mom is home, she could still have weed in her room hidden from her mom. If you sleep over at her house, she could still smoke weed at night when everyone else is asleep.  

Answer 21

well even though it might seem weird that she lets yu go over there everyday and she wont let yu sleepovr, she isnt wrong. she is just being protective and if yu wer the parent in this case dont yu think yu wouldve acted the same? give it a couple more weeks and maybe yur mom will lighten up a little bit.

Answer 22

Your mom is just trying to protect you. She doesn't want something to happen in the night where she has to rush over there and see what's wrong.  

Answer 23

You mother is your mother.  Listen to her.  I think she is right in taking a stand and not letting you go.  

You GO mom

Answer 24

no she isn't. she just doesn't want you around other teen that aren't doing positive things.  

Answer 25

No she is not wrong at all, your lucky she still lets you hang out with her.  I hope you took your friends experience to heart, because that could have been you, and it could have been a lot worse.  Just be happy you are able to see your friend everyday, and don't forget we were your age once too.

Answer 26

i think she is just concerned. if u go there during the DAY, there is not quite as much of a danger of getting high, but, when it is at night, the mom could be asleep, she could be doing soemthing, etc. that is alot more time to be with this friend, and then the friend might want to get high, to have more fun. i dont know all the details, i am not a mother, but, that is just wat i think:)  

Answer 27

she's right. you can get into more trouble when the sun goes down... and she just loves you and doesn't want that shizz to happen to you

Answer 28

Your mom is doing what she feels is best to keep you safe.  There is nothing wrong with that intention.  Give your mom a break...she is doing her best out of love for you.

Answer 29

No your mom is not wrong, your friend smokes weed.

Answer 30

h**l no I wouldn't want you around her or anyone she knows.  

Answer 31

h**l no.

She's worried about your well-being and doesn't want you in the hospital for 2 days too. =/

EDIT: It's going to take awhile for your mom to trust her, or at least you with her.

Seriously, if she's going to do drugs, she needs to make sure it's not laced with something else. -___-;