Is my baby's father just using her????

Question

My ex left me for another girl that i found out later he had been dating for 2 out of the 3 years we were together... we now have a baby due in a few days and he is denying her to the girl i mean eventually she will find out.... is he just using her

and when he talks to me he tells me he happy im the one dats having his baby and i think he says this because he thinks i will never leave him

Answer 1

He is using both of you.  

Answer 2

No sweetie. it doesnt sound like she is the one that he is using. Forget him. why would you even be concerned with someone who cheated on you for 2 years? Hes not being very responsible and it sounds like he doesnt care about you or her or the baby.  

Answer 3

It depends upon the situation

Answer 4

He has been using both of you and will continue to do so as long as you let him.  Its time to wake up and smell the roses.

Answer 5

Yes I think he is just using her. By the way, I would think if you really really care about him.

Answer 6

He's using you honey. I know it's hard with a baby on the way, but trust me, it's better to raise a baby by yourself than put up with that s#*&. I stayed with my baby's daddy even though I knew he was cheating and it just made it harder for me in the long run. There are plenty of resources out there for single mothers. Let him be involved in the baby's life, but you need to leave him alone!

Answer 7

he is using you both. he's a real player. once a cheater always a cheater. you need to start thinking about that little one. Send him out to the dogs. when you have this baby alot of things are going to change. Don't give up.  good luck girl.