Is my best friend lying to me?

Question

i have a group of close friends but the one who i was first friends with (since 1st grade!!) obviously made newer friends when she went to middle school (im a year younger so i was still in elementary)...so i met all her new friends nd we all hit it off and are still great friends and all...

but lately...my friend (the one i've been friends with..) she has been inviting over two other girls to hang and sleepover (when we're all usually equally as close..) and she like NEVER INVITES me...which i don't get and its not the other girls cause i talked to them about at the pool when she wasn't there and they thought it was just as weird as i did...and when they asked her she called me IMMEDIATELY and said how sorry she was and that she didn't mean anything by it (which i think is b.s)

i still think she is genuinely my friends and is there for me but then why is she doing this??

that was two weeks ago...and guess who she has over tonight???

comon guess? : )

if you guess our two friends and not me then ur one smarty!

so what is going on??? and what am i supposed to make of this??

Answer 1

just go straight to her & ask her about it.

face to face.

tell her that you don't understand why she isn't inviting you & that it is hurting your feelings.

if she seems genuinely sorry & has a good reason i think you should forgive her.

but if it does happen again i think you may need to start hanging out with someone else.

to prove a point you could invite the other two girls over to your house & not her.

do that only as a last resort though, because there is no reason to sink to her level.

i know how you feel, i had the same problem when i was in middle school.

my group of friends all liked hanging out @ the mall & it just wasn't my favorite thing to do but i would do it to be with my friends.

they all went to the mall one day & didn't even invite me.

& then the very next day they were all talking about how fun it was & they also got matching bracelets.

anyway, best of luck to you!

:]

Answer 2

Hey!,I think that maybe since she made a bunch of new friends she doesnt want you hanging around when her and her new friends are

sleeping over,Maybe your close friend is not as close as you thought shes gone from bff to friend without you knowing its happened to me with my friend i've known since kindergarden,Just sit her down and talk to her about it call her,im her text her whatever you can do dont feel scared to do it,just have that talk

Answer 3

well...like i used to have this problem...and it was just my "friends" personality..i didn't like it and c**p...and i just kinda ignored it and we slowly got not as close....but i mean we still chill and stuff...but idk ppl like that are ust weird...

Answer 4

you guys are just growing apart. she's making new friends and becoming closer with them, so i think you should do the same.  

Answer 5

u say "like" too dammn much

Answer 6

Confront her about it as soon as you can.   Ask her 'If you didn't mean anything by it, why did you do it again?'  If she's putting your friendship on the back burner, I'd move on, there are better friends out there.  It's hard to come to terms with, but people change, especially in middle/high school.  I have completely different friends now than I did 4 or 5 years ago.

Hope you work it out, best of luck.