Is my boyfriend coming on too strong?

Question

Ok well, we only had our first date today, and as we were kissing, he had his hands on my bum, and in the bum pockets. I though that was a bit too strong for the first date. What do you think? Is he just after s*x?

Thanks.

Answer 1

just say your coming on too strong and if his reaction is a negative one then you know he is after s*x and then you can dump him but if he does what you say and slows down and respects your wishes then you will have nothing to worry about. Just talk to him when you make out next time!

hope this helps!

Answer 2

just say "you're coming on too strong, slow the heck down"

and then if he doesn't, drop him like last seasons shoes...

Answer 3

if your not comfortable with that....

then yes its too strong!...

tell him to stop and calm down...

dont do anything that you dont want to do...

Answer 4

how old are you?

Answer 5

First, he is not your boyfriend, it was only a first date and many many first dates are also last dates.  Perhaps a touch strong as i guess you are 13 or 14. s*x no doubt was on his mind but then he is only 14 or 15 isn't he.

Answer 6

how is he your boyfriend after only one date????????

how old are you??

if your not comfortable then tell him to stop! though he might not be after s*x maybe he just likes your bum! :)

Answer 7

Sounds like hes only wants to get in your pants.

:l

Answer 8

It's a bit strong but you could say calling him your boyfriend on the first date was a bit strong. Get to know him and don;'t allow anything you aren't comfortable with. It's the only way to know of his intentions.

Answer 9

girl sound like he just wants to tear ur pants off