Is my boyfriend lying?

Question

So heres the deal: Me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months. Lately,things have been a little rocky and we have realized this and patched things up. Usually we see each other everyday,but we have agreed that maybe some days off where we spend time with our friends is more healthy and will help us fight less. Things are really looking up now. However, I still feel like something is wrong. I feel as if he is only staying with me in pity and that when he says he is happy,he really is not. I've talked to him about this and each time he assures me that if he did not want to be here,he would not be. I spoke to him about what bothered me in the relationship and he agreed that he fell off a little but he is back on track,and is going to take things back to how they used to be. I still get this paranoid knot in my stomach that hes not bieng genuine,but I can only question him so many times about that before he becomes annoyed by that. Do you think hes being honest when he says he really does want to be here and make things work? Why do I still feel sad/down if things are finally looking up for us?

Answer 1

Its normal to feel that way sometimes I feel that way about my boyfriend but i learn to just blow it off cause it's true if he didn't want to be with you then he would have left along time ago. Just don't be insecure about yourself and don't question him so much because it does get annoying and that could lead to a break-up. Be strong and inform him that you trust his word and that if something WAS wrong then you trust him to tell you.  

Answer 2

I used to feel this same way, I used to be shy. I didn't have my first real girlfriend until about 7 months ago. I was so used to rejection that I didn't think I would ever have someone that would actually like me.

I would question my girl everyday, if she was ok, if we were ok, if she was happy. I could never tell, so eventually I broke up with her, and I found out how much she really cared.

I made a big mistake, so when he says he is happy, he's telling the truth.

Don't make the same mistake, I did...trust him.

Hope I helped! Good luck! ; ]