Is my brother a jerk or is my preg hormones all wacky??

Question

ok so me and my 5 year old daughter were on our way to pick up my brother from work.

she decided that she was gonna write all over herself with a WASHABLE marker.

when my brother got in the car she put her little feet on the backs of our seats a said look at my toes.

we looked and it turned out she had drawn happy faces on everyone of the bottom of her toes. and she started wiggling them. it was soooooo funny and cute i just almost died laughing but my brother got mad at me and said i let her do whatever she wants and that since im having another baby soon me and my husband need to learn to control our kids.... is he a jerk or what maybe cause im preg im sensitive but i thought i was funny and harmless. he also said im a bad mom for laughing. was i wrong?

Answer 1

He sounds like a self proclaimed know it all  and a jerk and how you raise your kids is none of his d**n business.  Maybe he needs to get his own ride.  And maybe your husband won't appreciate his opinion either.  Next time you tell him when you want advice you'll ask for it.  Or tell him to take the bus ;)

Answer 2

I hope he keeps his pants zipped for a while.  That's just cute.  I would have laughed, too!

Answer 3

i draw the samething on my kids toes and we laugh like there is no tomorrow.  tell your brother it is a car puppet show just for him and see if he will watch and eventually laugh with you and your daughter.

Answer 4

He's just mad he doesn't have a girlfriend of his own? :]

Tell him when he gets kids he'll know how it will feel when people tell him how to raise his kids.But hey,he cares so its normal.If it were me i would have told him "your not her father don't tell me what to do with her,thanks for your comment but ill handle it"Besides your daughter is just having fun.And no your not a bad mother,your just having fun.Your brother is a fun sucker :D

Answer 5

look your brother in the face the next time he say you let your daughter do what ever she wants and say.." of course I do. she can do what ever she wants. next week we are letting her smoke crack.."..  

If he thinks he can talk to you that way give him a ridicules answer to what ever question he asks.

Answer 6

Considering your daughter's age its normal, just remind her not to do that. If he doesn't have kids he probably thinks he knows everything.

Answer 7

rofl I love it I got 3 kids and there is nothing wrong with that its your kids your the one who will wash it off so it is your place to say if it was wrong or not.The problem comes when its all over the wall and the back of the car  =) "" Kids Will Be Kids "" enjoy it

Answer 8

What a jerk! Tell him to bug off! The way you raise your children is nothing to do with him! My niece did that once, I almost died laughing as well, her little toes wiggling at me! You are NOT a bad mom, but your brother is a JERK!! (no offence). Lol

Answer 9

Umm...that's not really a bad thing . Especially considering your daughters age . I'm only 13 but , by that age I was already drawin flames on my whole leg like I had a tattoo ! I really don't think it's the hormones , I think your bro overreacted way too much .

Answer 10

that's just cute and perfectly normal. I don't think it has anything to do with learning how to control your kids...

Answer 11

Your bro is an a**. Your daughter was just acting her age having fun. Anyone would of laughed. Maybe your brother has the hormonal problems !