Is my casual s*x partner in love with me? Thanks!?

Question

We've been hanging out and having s*x for almost a year. Last time we were having s*x, he said "Do you want this d*ck... forever?" He said it twice and emphasized "forever." What does this mean? Was that just in the heat of the moment, or talking dirty, or is he really saying he sees us together forever? Thanks!

Also he was talking about things we can do together in the future, like take a trip together, go clubbing with his friends. And he said I made a connection with him and I said "You've made a connection with lots of girls." (because he's been with a lot.) And he said "Yeah, but I haven't been with anyone since you." Then he asked me if I had been with any other guys and I said "No" and he said "That's good." We also talk and hang out and we really have fun together and a lot in common. Thanks!

Answer 1

Yeah imagine actually having a relationship with the guy you are s******g! Pretty out there huh?

Answer 2

Ummmm.....hard to say......i think with that kinda relationship  he means it can lead to guys actualy taking a level of commitment.....who knows????

Answer 3

Yes, on the other hand why are you having s*x with someone you do not love?

Answer 4

casual s*x partners suck!! I had one...and that is all it was. I asked him to tell me if he was with anyone else just out of respect for me....because I didn't want to get anything. He said he would tell me if he did. I ended up getting pregnant (when I had an IUD) and then found out that he has been messing around with other girls, and that he doesn't really want anything to do with the child. (He wanted me to abort it or give it up, which I couldn't do). But now I'm with the man that I love who is willing to take care of a child that isn't his...and I'm more happy than ever......

Just be careful with these types of situations...

Answer 5

Well, If you and him have not made things official, all you can do for now is take things casually. Talk is cheap, so if he is saying one thing yet doing another, then I would be careful not to jump the gun with this relationship.

It seems like you two are getting closer though. And it is ok to hang out and do things together as long as you do not confuse s*x and a good time with a relationship. This can be a deadly concoction. So keep your guard up, but there is nothing wrong with having fun with him in the mean time.

Once he starts spending quality time with you and introducing you to his friends and family as his girlfriend, then you might have something here. But until then try not to give to much of your heart till he proves himself to you outside the bedroom and officially commits.

Answer 6

No, he is in love with the s*x! What kind of man expresses love to a woman by asking her "do want this d*ck forever"?? That's hilarious! You better learn the difference between love and infatuation before you make a HUGE mistake! I would LOVE to hear that line in the wedding vows!! "Do you, (insert his name here), vow to give that d*ck to (insert your name here) and only (your name here) from this day forward, till death do you part?" That is the funniest thing i have heard in a long time! Thanks for the laugh!

Answer 7

Sometimes something that starts out with no strings attached, turns into feelings, because their isn't the pressure to be a couple.

I think that you shouldn't ignore his hints and maybe sit down and talk with him about it, especially if its something you would consider.

Good luck!!!!

Answer 8

I'll bet he has already bought the ring.  

Answer 9

If he really wanted to be with you, you two wouldn't just be "casual s*x partners".  You would be dating or engaged.

He's saying what he thinks you want to hear so you'll continue to have s*x with him.

Answer 10

he's probably not in love yet, but he probably likes you a lot and maybe he's saying he wants to try something with you, like a relationship

Answer 11

i think the stuff he said while you were having s*x was just dirty talk but the other stuff may be more i think you need to have a "DTR" talk get everything on the table see where is goes  

Answer 12

It sounds to me that he has seen something in you he has not seen in his other conquests.  Meaning he see's you as marriage material and someone he coupled spend the rest of his life with.  I think he was basically asking you could you see a future with him and if you can let him know immediately.  If your not seeing anyone on the side from him and he is not seeing other woman besides you it appears he is going steady with you and he feels like jumping to the next stage of seriousness.  If this is someone you could see marrying just go for it.

He likes hanging out with you having you around it sounds like your already good friends with benefits so why not make it official GF/BF.

God Bless and Best Wishes.  Yes he has fallen for you in the simplest response.

Answer 13

*Sigh*.....listen.....and be truthful...if you think he's serious and has a 'romantic' interest in you then what kind of a proposal is "Do you want this d**k forever"?

I can't imagine too many females swooning with excitement with a line like that.

Sadly this is what comes when you do little else with a man other than spread your thighs open for him. Guess that really puts the 'benefits' in "friend with", huh?

Answer 14

Yes. Definitely.  Tell the world.

Answer 15

He's probably in love with you.  I think the reason that he spoke the way he did, instead of saying something like "I'm falling for you," is because of the nature of your relationship up to this point.  It's not quite conventional, but, but probably fun.

Your connection is obviously different than his previous ones.  Not seeing anyone else and concern about your status.  His lifestyle up to now should keep your guard up a little though.

Answer 16

He is just saying things you want to hear. He is in love with the s*x not you. Because if he did you would not be having casual s*x, you would be dating, getting engaged.  

Answer 17

Well, I would have to say he is interested in you more than just s*x.  

How does he treat you in front of his friends?  Has that ever happen?  

I wish you all the best.  

I just got rid of friend like that,but it was for two years.

He wants someone who doesn't have experience in bed

than someone like me who knows what I am doing.

I wish you all the best with this guy.

The age doesn't matter.  Yet, my friend did have a problem with

my age.  I am 40 and he is 37.  

Good luck and I truly hope it works out for you and him.

Answer 18

It may not be love love right now, but he deffinately has some kind of romantic interest in you. He want's to be with you more and more. The question is, do you want to make him an exclusive partner and see where your relationship goes?

Answer 19

I don´t think those comments mean he´s in love with you. If he were, you guys would be gf and bf, not just casual s*x partners. You seem wild yet very naive when it comes to true love feelings and believe me this kind of guy you´re having casual s*x with for a year now, is not the kind of guy I´d like to get involved with emotionally...I don´t think you´re the only casual s*x he´s having either. You seem very young too...how old are you? The word forever, doesn´t mean he´ll be with you forever. You´re definitely not over 18.

Answer 20

Yeah it sounds like he is falling for you and now you need to decide what you want as to not hurt him

Answer 21

That man likes talking dirty during s*x that's all. Hes freaky.