Is my dad getting married?? (10 Points)?

Question

Ok my parents just divorced like a year and a half ago....Because he was cheating on my mom with this women named Rita.....And supposly they had already been dating for like almost TWO YEARS....

So there still kicking a lot and almost going on 4......And I have only seen her 3 times over dinner with her my older sis and my dad......

So he is about to move houses in a few months and there is nothing wrong with wat he has now.....but he wants a bigger one....but why a bigger one....So im thinking there moving in together meaning at times I will live there to....So like there is nothing wrong with her..shes nice but why won't he say anything to me....cause if there moving in together...this means there going to get married(4 years!!)......So like im trying to figure out wats going on with him...should I ask him wats going on or should I just wait and see wat happens..........And also wat do you think of this situation???.

PLEASE HELP IM CONFUSED!!!!!!!!!

Note: I have posted this before but I need different answers like is he

getting married....or what do you think about the situation....

Answer 1

Lots of people move in together or even have kids together without getting married. If you want to know what's going on, you're just going to have to ask. Your mother might know, but if she won't tell you, or doesn't know, you're going to have to ask your father. If he won't tell you, then depending on how old you are, you might just have to wait to find out.

Answer 2

If your that worried that your dad might be get married, then go right ahead and ask him. Maybe he's just not ready to tell you yet, or he doesn't know if it's official yet. But, he is your dad, so you can have a right to know. I'm guessing you live with your mom, right? Ask her if she knows anything about it. Maybe if you see Rita alone, you could bring it up with her? Best of luck. :]

Answer 3

I think you are overreacting (just a little bit....) Maybe there just moving in together that doesn't necessarily mean that they are getting married it's best to talk to your father don't assume 'cause you can't assume w/o a possibility of looking like an ***.........Just ask him "Dad, are you going to marry Rita?" Or "Dad, are you buying a bigger houde to live with Rita?" 'Cause knowin IS Beautiful!!!!! :) I think talking about shows maturty and understanding look at both (in this case three) sides of the spectrum (or better yet, put yourself in that situation do you want your kids doing what you thinking about doing?) do you wanna jump to conclusions or know ALL the facts before your conclusion......think about it......  

Answer 4

my parents are divorced  to and its hard for parents to tell u that there getting in a relationship so u should just wait a while

Answer 5

Most likely he is gonna get married and start a family with her. But you know all you can do is guess and worry yourself unless you ask him and be like "Im wondering because i care about you and I want you to be happy"

so just confront him and hope for the best..:)

and always remember..

even if he marries someone else other than your mom he will still care for you and love you..so dont worry too much..

tell me if something happens..

good luck ;)

Answer 6

You should honestly sit down with him and ask. you won't get a definite answer unless you ask him. The situation is kinda' weird in that he was with her for two years and just divorced 1 1/2 yrs ago. Also understand that this isn't the day and age when just because you move in with someone you're automatically gonna marry them. Also, a lot of people who get divorced are a little scared of remarrying so quickly. Even if you odn't want to be too front with your dad and ask if he's getting married, why not ask where he thinks the relationship is heading. He should keep open line of communication with you. best of luck!

Answer 7

I think the bigger concern for you is that, if they get a bigger house and marry, you have to live there part-time.  If you're a teenager and have been living full-time with your mom, your dad would have a hard time convincing a judge to make you live where you don't want to live with him and the woman he was having an affair with.  The judge WOULD take into consideration where you want to live, and, unless there's damned good reason to do otherwise, would very likely let you continue to stay with your mom full-time.

Answer 8

The only person that can give you the answer will be your dad, you know what you need to do and good luck