Is my ex-gf faking a pregnancy ? ?

Question

Is my ex-gf faking a pregnancy? We have been broken up for about 4 months, she cheated on me, and lied about a lot of things to me. One night after drinking a lot she came back to my place, and we had s*x with no protection. The next morning I asked her if she was still on birth control, she said yes! I then proceeded to blow her off, after 3 days of ignoring her calls she leaves a message on my phone saying that she’s late on her period. So I invited her over for dinner and bought a pregnancy test for her to take which came back negative. I then proceeded to blow her calls off once more, and then told her not to contact me anymore. She then clamed that she had taken a test and was pregnant as soon as I told her that. I told her to come over right away and she refused saying that she had to get up for work the next day. She met me 3 days later. I told her I would buy a test for her to take. But when she came over she said she had already taken another one in the morning. So she pulls this test out of her pocket with no box, wrapper, or receipt. Clams she threw them away. The test was positive, (first response, one dark line one light line) I asked her to take one of the test that I bought just to be safe, she refused and was insulted that I didn’t trust her. She stormed out pissed off at me. 2 weeks later I talked to one of her friends and she just got back from vacation and was drinking a lot. What do you all think? I really don’t think that she is but I am loosing sleep and worrying about this? Thanks all!!!

Answer 1

If I understand the timeline correctly, you had s*x and then three days later she said she missed her period and she was pregnant. Okay, here is a FACT - you cannot get a positive result on a pregnancy test after three days. You cannot get one AT least 10-14 days after s*x for the hormones to register, much less the egg implant. A woman generally ovulates 14 days before her period. While she could ovulate late and she could get pregnant any time of the month, the whole pregnancy test thing just doesn't have a ring of truth to it.  

Answer 2

Faking! If, for some reason, she turns out to be pregnant for real request a paternity test when the baby is born. It might not even be yours anyway.  

Answer 3

she sounds like she's lying to me, offer to take her to a doctor to do a pregnancy test, if she refuses her lying is confirmed

Answer 4

I am a female and I would take the test in front of my man so I can prove it I may be a little hurt by the acusation but I would still do it for my child and so my man would have piece of mind.Your best bet is to make sure but what ever you do don't and I repeat don't have s*x with her if you do she may attempt to get pregnant if she is not already. (poking holes in condoms, or lying about being on pill, or telling you you don't need a condom because she is already pregnant). I had some ex friends do this to guys some women are very sneaky be careful.

Answer 5

Sounds like she is lying. There are some women, as low as it may seem, who pull the Pregnancy card as a last ditch effort to keep someone around. Maybe she still has feelings for you and dooesn't want to lose you, her way of staying close to you is to allow you s*x and to pretend she is pregnant when you refuse her calls or tell her you don't want her anymore. I would talk to her. Let her know if you are sincerely interested in keeping her as a girlfriend. If not, then tell her and let her go, no s*x. Continuing to have s*x with her, may be sending mixed signals. And especially use protection, with everyone you have s*x with. Reguardless of if you "know" them or not. With all the STD's going around, a baby is the least of your worries. Hope this helps.

Answer 6

1. Yes, she is faking...duh!!!

2. Stop dipping your wick in her dumbass, she is a psycho!

3. Stop all communication with her

Answer 7

yeah sounds like shes faking the pregnancy.....geez why do some chicks do that i would never do that to a guy

Answer 8

Hmm yeah she could be faking though she could also just be annoyed by your behaviour and that you don't trust her. (It's not unusual for a first test to show up negative.)

I guess all you can do is wait and see what she does about the pregnancy...if she is pregnant then you can do a DNA test to see if it's yours...

Harriet

Answer 9

sounds scammy, but this is how you can play it, inform her that you would like to be a part of the pregnancy only, and that you would like to accompany her to her doctor's appointments, you do not want to get back with her, but you would like to stay informed in her pregnancy, and see what happens, she may also be pregnant but not necessarily by you, make sure you remember exactly when you slept with her, but don't loose any sleep...if you go to the doctor with her and you can always ask the doctor how far along she is, just because she is drinking does not mean she may not be pregnant it means she is STUPID

Answer 10

The odds are in your favor so just let it go and stay away from her. If she is really pregnaunt you shall be called in for a DNA test anyway. Even if she is pregnaunt most likely it is not yours