lately my fiance and i have been arguing more and more, to were we don't want to speak to each other. Hes constantly telling me now that I have too much of an authoritative voice, and I talk different to him than i do to my family. Tell me if am I wrong but does it sound like hes getting annoyed with me. Cause anymore its just my normal talking voice. He ignores me more, and doesn't ask to do things anymore. Half the time I can't even get him to over to my parents house and hang out. He says its too stressful at my parents house. But at his house right now, is dad is have an texting affair with a old friend in south carolina. His mom is constantly repeating facts over and over again, and is afraid to say something back at her husband. And is constantly coming to talk to us all day long about it. Then my fiance wonders why I get mad sometimes, that he does want to go to my house. And that reason is he might have to help out some. See his parents didn't make him do anything while growing up. NO chores, nothing. Now hes going to be 23, staying at home, doesn't have a car, six thousand dollars in debt, and can't keep a stable job. My parents are worried that I might be supporting him all my life, and want me to leave him. I do love him, but I really wish he would make some sacrifices like I have. Am I being selfish if i leave him? I really don't want to, but I can't live like this anymore! He doesn't want to commit that he spends too much time doing his little metal music projects on his computer and guitar. Every time I ask him to go down to my house, he gives me the excuse "I wanted to finish my song today" Even though he knew i was going to down to my house that day. He avoid things that make me happy, like family. His family rather not hang out, but sit around all day and goof around. Which you can tell with the lack of house keeping in their house. They leave clothes everywhere, dishes stack up, don't run the sweeper nor dust. My fiances father has bathe yet thing year. I don't feel like my self anymore, but I don't think this is a good reason to leave my fiance, for I believe I am only being selfish and running away for it all.
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