Is my friend g*y? (or bisexual?)?

Question

Several times he mentioned when we are company with other males that we should have s*x, but in different ways, like on a joke etc. Moreover, he wrote me several times on internet chat such "jokes" including the g*y element etc. Once he even said that he would kiss me instead of an ugly girl. Everything is so confusing. I've seen him twice with a girlfriend, and heard for maybe 2 more girlfriends that he had. Me, on the other hand, I've been with hundreds of them:) My intuition tells me that in every joke there is an amount of truth. So, what do you think?

Answer 1

hes a F   A  G   all the way

Answer 2

If you have this question, ask him...or not...but nothing we can say is going to be anything other than speculation.  Sorry, there's no way to know from the outside looking in...ask him or decide it's not worth mentioning (which it really isn't...)

Answer 3

he's probablly bi. i hope you're not going to hold that against him. that would be really S****y. if it bothers you, you should just confront him in a relaxed maybe joking manner and then tell him you're ok with it as long as he doesnt make any moves on you or make you too uncomfortable with suggestions.

Answer 4

none of us know him so there's no way for us to know

just ask him

or let it go, should it matter if he is or not?

Answer 5

i think that maybe he is bisexual and he is hinting it to you because he may possibly like you or be afraid that you would reject him..

Answer 6

yes,he is g*y....ive come to know that every joke has certain thing of truth and he definitively is g*y,i mean,he is joking more than usual...and that of the ugly girl was the top of the iceberg...wait for more jokes about g*y s*x for you hahahaha...most of the times,g*y guys try to hide their sexuality getting a fake girlfriend...

Answer 7

if he was g*y why would he go for you?

i think hes more secure in is sexuality, which is straight, than you are

Answer 8

Yeah..probably.

Answer 9

no i dont think he is.

i have mates who act like that haha and they are 100% percent straight

its just modern joking about.

maybe he hasnt had as many gf's as you because he is a little shy around girls, or maybe isnt quite as good looking or somthing?

im not sure tbh, but i think he is most likely straight

xo

Answer 10

i thinks hes bi

Answer 11

I think your friend is bi.

if he keeps this up, and keeps talking to you about it, try and keep some distance. He might try and flirt with you and by the sound of it, it sounds like he is already.

Plus dont be afraid to ask him just once. He might be honest with you.

Answer 12

He could be bi sexual

Or he could be sounding you out - Like trying to ask if you are g*y without it getting too awkward.

Don't worry about it, Let it slide

When its time, you will both figure it out

What does your instincts tell you?

Answer 13

His saying he would rather kiss you than an ugly girl is very interesting.  That suggests to me he is at least bi.  It is quite possible he is predominantly g*y but uses the girls to convince himself and others that he is straight.  Only he knows for sure if he is a straight joker or a g*y guy in hiding.

But regardless, he is a friend...and his worse nightmare would be to be rejected by people he cares about like you.

If you are g*y or bi yourself, there is no problem.

But if you are straight, and you find out he is g*y, tell him you love and accept him for who he is.  Make clear that you are straight and don't want romance with him.  But then say again that you think he is an awesome guy and you are glad to have him as a good friend.  Then hug him...that hug will be very important.  That will show him that you really care and have not rejected him.

In that way, you will keep your own integrity and identity as a straight guy, but will show your care and love to your bi friend, pulling out the poison dart of fear by your words and your hug.

Um, ask him in a non-threatening way, like, "Have you ever kinda wondered if you mgiht be a little bit g*y or bi?  Seriously, it's okay with me if you are!"  If he realizes it is truly safe, he just might come out to you...or will explain that he really is straight.