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Is my friend not a good friend or should I just lighten up a bit?

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I get fed up with my friend a lot. In the last year especially he has been a d**k. He reversed his car into the stone wall outside my house (all the damage was on his car), looks on my computer and hacks his way in to find out and tells my other friends what p**n I've been looking at, then doesn't let it drop if you make a joke about him. OK I understand the dish it out and taking it scenario, but sometimes he always has to make you look like an idiot for something so small if you make fun of him. He also kept throwing litter onto my tent at the weekend when there was a bin 30 seconds away (not intentionally at mine just wherever he had a clear aim outside the tent which n most cases was my tent).

He also starts chatting up the girl I was flirting with and then gives the vibe I should get lost. I did after a while since I never got a word in when talking to her after hestarted talking to her.

Or is it me, am I taking it too much to heart and should just lighten up.

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  1. He likes getting a rise out if you, but it seems that he also goes to far.  I WOULD DISTANCE MYSELF A LITTLE AND SEE IF THINGS CHANGE.  DONT BE A DOORMAT...


  2. He sounds like a jerk who is after attention. Explain how you feel to him, if he can understand, give him another try. If he blows up and goes off on you, ditch that loser, he's not a friend!

  3. get rid of this dude, he;s a sabatoger and it'll only get worse

  4. do the sametin to him


  5. Oh my word....he is not a friend.  He is someone you are familiar with, used to hanging out with...but not a FRIEND.  Sounds like he has all areas covered as far as being a d*ck.  It dosent matter WHY he is doing all these things (major insecrities and jealousies) but rather WHY you are staying around for more?  Maybe you have forgotten what a real friendship feels like..ditch him and make new friends..it will be really re-freshing.

  6. you are taking too much . you are be used by your friend and that is not cool . i had a friend like that and i finally end our friendship and years later she said she was sorry about what happen and want to start our friendship again

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