Is my friend trying to make me feel bad? or am I a bad friend?

Question

i have this friend and we were both pretty miserable for this year

we both liked guys who didnt know and we were having a S****y time.

she told the guy she liked that she liked him and he rejected her.

i was there for her and she wasnt really a bicth to me when i was miserable.

its been a while but she makes believe it never happened and she still likes him.

finally,i told the guy i like that i fancy him recently and he tdidnt reject me and were talking a lot lately.

i told her and she was just like o cool, and she wasnt even interested.

when i was talking to him she was talking about suicide.

just when i was starting to be happy in a very long time.

she told me she was jealous, too.

i always got her back and now shes treating me like this?

she says i dont care and all i care about is him which isnt true.

i try my best, but i feel like she wont be happy for me.

what to do?

Answer 1

get a new friend. UNLESS SHE LIKES U THAT WAY SHE SHOULDNT BE JEALOUS CUZ THAT'S MESSED UP. so yea she's a bad friend. if she likes u that way and she's jealous of him then thats a diff story, it means she cares for u and stuff if not she just dumb and let her go!

Answer 2

well for starters, is a boyfriend more important than a best friend?

of course you dont have to stop talking to the guy just to make your friend happy but she may be feeling that youre paying to much attention to him instead of her. You will have to talk to them one at a time privately saying to them that you can just be good friends with the guy. Say to your friend you didnt mean to make her feel jealous and that you'll back off of him for a while and spend some time with her. She then might realise having a boyfriend isnt that important then having a best friend. i hope i helped you:)

Answer 3

tell her exactly how you feel. both of you were going through tough times and finally you got your chance to happiness but she didn't. but it doesn't mean she has to drag you down with her. it's not like she'll never get her chance. if she chooses to believe that she was never rejected and you've told her about it but she still denies it, let her deal with it on her own and face it the tough way. there's only so much you can do. but for sure, talk less about what's happening between you and the person you like. just think about her situation, rejected and having to hear her friend talk about how good things are going. just watch over your friend and make sure she doesn't do anything desperate or life threatening. spend more time with her, of course without the guy you like. it's all a trial of jealousy and envy. people tend to be self absorbed, self centered, they compare their lives to others and wonder why the grass is always greener on the other side. sometimes i get into the mode your friend is in and realize things could REALLY be worse. patience with reality will eventually work things out. hope this sort of helps.