Is my giant crush making me waste my time or is there any hope at all?

Question

Things is that I have a huge crush on my neighbor and our relationship is more like a "Hey Aon, check out this funny ring tone" or "wanna hear a joke? Did you see that movie" Nothing personal i guess... He's funny, kind, random, smart and hot a little popular guy i guess. I'm kinda like him and a little popular. Point is that I've been having many dreams about us just hanging but more like soft and secret cuddle *^^*... In my dreams, i act normal, like trying not to look at him too much and all, but he's always trying to get close and like just hold hands and all. I know that i kinda I love him... but the question "What if..." Kills me... In real life he was kinda staring at me and when i noticed I looked at him too, so we kinda stared at each other for a moment but it might have been me having wishful thoughts and nothing more. We're almost never alone when together and we never talk a bout personal things... i just wanna know if there is a chance or am I wasting my time???

Answer 1

It's hard to say because dreams are rarely literal.  The dream is probably just a combination of your wishes and fears.

If you want to be with him just tell him.  It's that simple!  If he says no, it's not the end of the world.  It might hurt your ego, but you will bounce back.  You will have to learn that rejection is a big part of life and you will experience a lot of it so get used to it now.

Nothing ventured nothing gained.  Just tell him how you feel.

Good luck!