Is my gilfriend cheating?

Question

Today my girlfriend came over, initiated s*x, she made crazy love to me(it was great might i say), then she left abruptly afterwards. This is totally not like her, she never initiate s*x and i always like to hold her after we make love. I honestly don't know what to make of this, is there someone else, can she be hiding something?

Answer 1

Anything is possible. But consider this, you're so hot she just had to have you and wanted to spice up your s*x life by being completely spontaneous and dominant. Ask yourself, how much did you really enjoy the experience? She may just wanna try something different. Talk to her about it. Ask her the reason for her wild and awesome sexcapade. Hopefully she did it just to keep your full attention. Like, you thought I was good, but you have no idea how good I can really be. Get ready for a wild ride if she's feeling extra horny!

Answer 2

Stop trying to guess and ask her why she left so suddenly.

Maybe she just wanted to surprise you with something new sexually that she read about in a romance novel.

It may be something simple like she was not feeling well or just wanted a "quickie" and had to get back to work, studying.

Answer 3

Her behavior doesn't necessarily mean that she is cheating on you....perhaps she just finished reading a romance novel and was trying to re inact a scene.....Have you considered calling her to ask her about the way things transpired today?

Answer 4

Absoluterly, or she watched prono movies and she got all turned on.

Answer 5

I doubt it. She probably just wanted a quickie (chicks like those too you know). And as noted before in another answer, maybe she didn't feel like being held, or even just wanted to mix things up a bit... which is always healthy. If you relationship is just a routine, then I believe that's just the beginning of the end. You should applaud her for being the one to step up and mix things up a bit. Not many women will take the measures she did. I don't think you have anything to worry about, however if this happens more often with no real explanation, then you may want to inquire why it is that she just takes off after s*x with no explanation. Just chose your words carefully, you don't want to come off as a whinner, or someone who is glingy, that won't help you at all. Otherwise like I said, just sit back and enjoy the ride, and look at it like this... theres TONS of guys who'd love to be in your "position" lol.  

Answer 6

No, like men a lot of woman have desires.  

Answer 7

If she was cheating, my guess is she'd be less interested in s*x with you than normal... This sounds like something else...  Can't you just ask her what's up?  

Answer 8

yes , if she smelled of some other guys p***s

Answer 9

I have to agree with Kiss My Turkey.

I don't think anything is going on, I think she might have wanted to surprise you and jump your bones. If she was with someone else she would probably be avoiding s*x with you.

You should ask her, "what was up with that surprise super s*x?"

Answer 10

Why are guys never happy?  You don't get it, you complain and when you do, she is cheating on you.  Give me a break.  Can't you just be happy that she didn't make you cuddle afterward? She didn't want to "make love"  she just wanted s*x!!!!!

Answer 11

I wouldnt think so, if so, she would not be given you it, it would be given to someone else... Maybe she was trying to be exciting.. maybe she had things to do..  I wouldnt take that as cheating..  

Answer 12

i dont think shes hiding anything not that i here of.. but maybe shes just tired of you cuddling.. maybe she wnts you to do somethin different for a change..

stop worrying.. lol