Is my girlfriend pregnant but i didnt have s*x but my hands were in her pants but i didnt ejaculate, ineedhelp

Question

Day 1: Well my day has been fine until Mary(my girlfriend) told me that she was sick and had a headache and a stomach ache. I asked her if she thought about if she was pregnant and sadly she has thought about it. So I don’t know what to do I mean I cant be father at the age of 14. My mom cant afford to take care of a baby and I don’t know what to do I am so scared. She said that she doesn’t think that she’s pregnant but I really don’t know. I mean we fooled around but didn’t have s*x. So I really don’t know what to expect. I mean all the signs are there she’s sick in the mornings and the afternoons. I put my hands in her pants and she has put her head In mine, but I didn’t… You know, but we both think that it still found a way to her and inside her. I don’t know what to do im so scared of what will happen. I will do anything not to have a kid at 14. I really need help.

Answer 1

if you havent ever ejactulated in her b4, then it is not possible for her to be pregnant.

Answer 2

WELL YOU SHOULDA TOLD HER TO STOP WITH THAT NASTY STUFF!

THEN YOU WOULDN'T HAVE TO WORRY!

SHE'S DEFINETLY PREGGERS.

Answer 3

you should be fine... unless your s***n was on your hand while you but you hands in her pants... but even then the chances are quite slim

Answer 4

WTF? What the h**l were your hands doing in her pants? If you can't live up to the responsibilities you shouldn't have your hands doing in her pants! Your MOM can't afford to take of a baby? Don't you think YOU should be taking care of it?

Answer 5

If you dont know how to get a girl pregnant, you shouldnt be having s*x.

Answer 6

In order for her to be pregnant, she would have to have a certain something inside of her (a liquid, if you know what I mean). I don't think she's pregnant. Unless, it was on your hand when you went in her pants. The whole thing is weird.

Answer 7

No, Well I can't say no because I don't know your girlfriend. But I am telling you now that you cant get a girl pregnant if you didnt have REAL s*x with her and if she puts her mouth on your you-know-who she most definitely cant get pregnant that way so you are safe now your girlfriend might be pregnant with someone elses baby you need to let her go because she probably cheating on you.

Answer 8

did the fluids enter her

Answer 9

no she isnt pregnant...sperm doesnt jump through clothes..if u didnt have actual s*x that don't worry

Answer 10

get a pregnancy test...its easy as that...and if you dont want anyone to know that its hers/yours then go to a town where you dont usually go to.

Answer 11

p***s+v****a=s*x

If you didn't have s*x she is not pregnant with your baby.  If she does turn out to be pregnant she is probably cheating on you and you should get a paternity test to find out if it is actually yours.

Answer 12

UHmm i dont mean to sound rude but like are you serious there is no possible way she got pregnant if u didnt have sexual intercourse that is the only way ok... and look i;m your same age hun and you shouldnt be fooling around with adult matters "s*x" if you arent ready to meet all the consequences that come with it like pregnancy and STD's and if you are going to be doing that c**p make sure to use protection and be responcible about it.

Answer 13

no, she cant get pregnant if you don't ejaculate in her.

Answer 14

You should pay attention in health class. In order for her to get pregnant, your p***s needs to be INSIDE her v****a and you need to ejaculate while inside. You can't spread s***n through hands unless you ejaculated on your hands and then put them inside her. Even then, the chance is slim.

She cannot get pregnant by giving you oral s*x.

This might sound mean but since you are completely unaware of how pregnancy works I do not think you are old enough to have your hands up inside your girlfriend, since you are clearly not responsible enough to raise a child or cope with an STD (you even said it yourself). I know and you know that you don't want to be a father, so act responsibly and wait until you are older to do anything sexual (even fooling around). Keep your hands on the video game controller.

Answer 15

As long as your fluid (s***n) didn't go into her v*****, you should be fine.

Judging by that paragraph, I think the odds are low.

EDIT: You didn't ejaculate, so the odds are very very very low.

Answer 16

Kind of hard to tell exactly what you did do, but if your p***s never got near her v****a, or you never put your finger inside her v****a with fresh, wet s***n on it, then you couldn't possibly have made her pregnant.  Which is not to say that some other boy might have got her pregnant.  Believe me, it happens, and girls don't think the actual father matters, just the boy she most wants to be with.

The likelihood is that she just has the flu.  Or has worried herself into a false pregnancy (all of the symptoms, but no baby).

For all of the reasons in the world, you should stop fooling around with this chick (or any girl) until you're MUCH older.

Answer 17

Unless there was sperm on one of your hands and then that hand touched her then no. But even then it would be pretty unlikely. If you are worried she can wait until 5 days before her missed period and buy a pregnancy test.

Answer 18

Dont worry so much. If you guys didnt have s*x. than she cant get prego. I think she is messin with your head. You are only 14. I know what its like. Been there done that. Just dont worry about it intill its defff.

Answer 19

um you didnt stick it in her and you didnt go so i highly doubt it. and kids your age dont need to be touching and thinking about having s*x

Answer 20

Why r u worried she can only get pregnant if your s***n came into her to fertilize an egg.So she is fine.Shes not pregnant.

Answer 21

Guess what? Oral s*x doesnt equal pregnancy. So your ok there. As long as you guys didnt have s*x your ok. And you said you didnt ejaculate. So my guess is your fine.

But if your really that concerned tell your girlfriend to see a doctor or take a pregnancy test.

Who knows, maybe she just has the flu.

Answer 22

if you guys didn't have s*x and you didn't come, then she's probably not pregnant.

good luck!

Answer 23

no your g/f is not pregnant your just paranoid