Is my guy a player? or is my ex trying to cause trouble?

Question

my ex knows im seeing a really great guy that i really like and can see myself getting serious with. through my facebook status my ex got my new guys name and i think he googled it because he sent me an email saying i wish u the best of luck blah blah blah.. ps ur bf is on other websites and is looking for a relationship.. have a nice day. he inserted links of some social networking sites similar to myspace/ facebook and they all say my guy is single and looking for a relationship. i dont know what to do right now. clearly my ex was wrong for doing that but the info is still the same. its possible my man didnt change the status info since the work info has his old job info so he may have legit not changed it.. but he has been logged in and updated pictures...hmmm

what do i do? i really like this new guy and its really bothering me. i know i have to talk to him but i dont know what to say? what am i supposed to say? "hey by the way (ex bf name) was creeping u and found out ur looking for relationships on these sites...care to explain?"

Answer 1

dont know

Answer 2

Be honest. Show him this question and ask him to be honest with you about his intentions. If you are just going out, ....no promises yet....no rules right?...did you meet him online?

Answer 3

Ask him if he's updated his relationship status on facebook, myspace, etc.  If he says no, give him a few days to change it.  If it doesn't change then he's doing something.

Answer 4

Catch him in the act.  "Pose" as a potential new interest.  Find out FIRST hand so you know for sure without any out side influences.

Or be mature and just ask - But you know men, they lie.....

Answer 5

Just ask him that why is it written their that you are still looking for a relationship. Whats so complicated in it. Its your right. If he breaks up then it means he is really a player.

Answer 6

Just ask him, explain that there are feelings on your part and you want to know if he is still looking for Mrs. Right. If he isnt he should be willing to change his sites, If he is still looking then he isnt feeling the same as you do. I would also tell Mr. EX to butt out.