Is my husband being farithfull to me?

Question

a lady call the house saying thing's like my husdand is telling her that hies not married, i just want to know is she telling me the truth

Answer 1

Hmm....I wouldn't call another woman and say that unless SOMETHING was happening. What has your husband said about this?

Answer 2

you are not going to know if she is telling you the truth...

one - how did she get your number

two - ask your husband if he knows her and if there is anything suspicious going on

also, need more info, do you suspect he is cheating on you? how long have you been married? is she a co worker? have you ever met her? is there something else going on? all these things can be factors, but the answer to your question of is she telling the truth - you probably wont find out - it is his word against hers and it honestly sounds like drama getting ready to happen- so you can stop it now, or play the game - this is something you need to decide

hope this helps

Answer 3

honey that is what we call he said she said and you will never know the truth if the lady isn't ready to confront your husband in your presence or give info that is vital only you and he would know chalk it up to this woman being messy

Answer 4

So you believe a complete stranger and not your husband??? Its you who are being untrusting!!!

Answer 5

Well you know your husband better than you know her so take it from there. I would tell him that a lady called and what she said. You have the right to ask but don't panic yet...

Answer 6

yes! he is cheating on you or other wise he would of called her on put her in check.

Answer 7

When in doubt he's out playin.

That other girl is putting something on him so powerful..she's a homewrecker.

Those young girls find a weak married man and it's all over Jack.

Answer 8

Ask your husband, and let him know of the phone call. You never know what this situation could be. He could be cheating but this could also be another situation.

Answer 9

There are very very spiteful people out there. The other day a friend of a friend had to go to jail for a week because after he told his girlfriend to get out of his house, she and her new found boyfriend went to the police and claimed he stole her clothes which he never did. He had to wait a week in jail to finally get a court hearing. But that does not mean it is the case with you, but it can easily be. Maybe he fired someone at work, or someone is pissed off at him. But, yeah, keep an eye open.

Answer 10

magic 8 ball says...

don't know

Answer 11

so...my first question is  - who is this woman? is she a co-worker that KNOWS that your married and saw him at a staff bbq hitting on other women?

Or is she a person that has a crush on your man and just trying to cause trouble?

WHO IS SHE and HOW DOES SHE KNOW YOU?

Answer 12

Not enough info. Don't confront him without proof.

Any more clues?

Do you know where he is all the time?

Have you checked his email?

"  ""  cell phone?

Answer 13

Only one way to find out; confront your husband and watch how he behaves when you do.

Answer 14

i won't come to a conclusion.maybe you have an enemy at work trying to take revenge on you.or could be your husband is cheating on you.try calling the woman back.find out for yourself rather than feeling guilty for the rest of your life.do it now.you will get the answer.i hope his not cheating on you.

Answer 15

some people will tell you the truth...some will lie to cause problems..Ask your hubby straight out...I've seen things like this before..

Answer 16

you need to talk to your husband about this.

Answer 17

your husband has obviously told this lady he isn't married.she wouldn't just call u out of the blue.seems as if he is planning to be unfaithful to u.

Answer 18

How can we possibly know? Statistically, the odds are that your husband is NOT cheating - more than 50% of married men are faithful. The only way you can find out is by finding out more about her and her accusations. Is there a reason why she would be making this up? If she doesn't know you, why is she ringing you with this upsetting information? Has she got a grudge aganst your husband or some other member of your family? Do you have any other reason to think he's unfaithful? Find out what you can about her, and then either dismiss her accusations, or ask your husband about them.  

Answer 19

Do you have caller ID? If you know the woman's name, do a little investigating, find out how she knows your husband, etc. Then have a quiet chat with him. Tell him about her calls, ask who she is, & if he knows what's up. But you'll have to watch his reactions carefully. I hope you can tell when he's lying and when he's telling the truth. Something is up - either he is involved with someone or she is just trying to stir up trouble hoping to get him involved with her. Be careful - you don't want to accuse him if there's any chance he's innocent here. Good luck!

Answer 20

If you have caller ID call her back , have her meet you somewhere and both of you confront your husband. Get it out in the open before it goes to far.

You need to know the truth.  

Answer 21

This woman is Trouble.  Anyone that calls your house telling you this sort of thing (you didn't indicate whether you and she know each other or not and if you do how good of friends are you to each other).  I am assuming you don't know her, which makes me wonder how she got your number.  Some people just like to create drama in other people's lives.  I am not saying that your husband IS or IS Not cheating on you.  I would discuss the phone calls with him without assuming he is guilty.  His reactions will tell alot.   However, I would be adamant about

him keeping a distance from her and the woman not contacting you again.  If he respects you, he won't have an issue with staying away from the trouble.

Answer 22

Old Chinese proverb; Before marriage, keep your eyes wide open--After marriage, Keep your eyes half shut.

Now, I applied this when I had people telling me my man was cheating and I refused to let him think that I did not trust him. The person calling wanted to start some "stuff" between you two...Don't let it happen her way. You just come right out and tell him what happen, as a 'by-the-way' type of attitude. Also conclude your statement with "Darling, I fully trust that you would never cheat on me, so you better let this woman or whomever that this rumor will not split us up. That we are solid as butter on a winter day.

Honey, his response will tell you everything you want to know. Guilt, Confidence, Agreeable or Disagreeable response will tell you what is going on. After all, no one knows him better than you. Nagging and accusing him will get you no where, other than mad. His response will be to get mad as well, guilty or not. So take the other route above and watch which way he goes. Good luck.