Is my husband jealous?

Question

My friends say that he is completely jealous and not just being an ***. But I have recently lost quite a bit of weight...he's overweight himself, and instead of commending me he'll put me down saying that #'s don't matter and that I've accomplished nothing. I have a profile on a popular site and recently put some pictures of myself. He said that I am so fake putting them up there, and that I probably photoshopped them to make them look nice. Which was not the truth at all. He's never acted jealous. My friends say that the quiet ones are usually the psycho jealous ones. Is that how men act?

Answer 1

Dare to be yourself and be happy in life. Communication break down plus trusth is the key to all this ##**==++-- thing in your family. Please seat down and talk slowly and gently to sort thing out instead of nasty words which will ended up a broken family. Maybe your Husband got some depression he himself dun know. Ask him what he really want and tell him what you want as both are family, I believe still got room to talk. Me as a good example as I dun talk to my wife and I only make her sad and angry, I dun know why also? Till lately I found out I got depression problem and I had sort it out with my wife and all going fine now. I also loss weight all because of the love I had for her and my kids and in short I am more than willing to do whatever it may take for this family. I just want to have a happy family. Show him some concern first to take the first step to sort things out with him. Respect and not scare remember ! Respect need to be earn by action not just talk. Take care and Gob blesses you and your family. Dun worry just be happy.

Answer 2

He might feel that now you have lost weight you will find someone else, he is feeling threatened that's all....  

Answer 3

of course he is jealous. just don't let him put u down and probably he knows that when u lose weight and start looking hot u will dump him and ind someone better. when i had my babies i gained weight and immediately after giving birth i started exercising , sometimes twice a day. he was very very not satisfied with it and was all the time criticizing me and saying i am wasting my time. well, he stopped saying it when i lost weight, acquired perfect body and dumped him for much better man who is fit, intelligent and wealthy

Answer 4

he is jelous but the wrong way he wishes he was the one who looked good suggest for him to get on diet and quit the hating game... LOL

Answer 5

It isn't right for him to treat you that way. He should be supporting you on your weight loss. Jealous or not, IDK, but he has no right to say those things to you. He should be your supporter and friend, lifting you up and encouraging you, not acting like some highschool girl rival putting you down to make himself feel better. I am so sorry he is hurting you like that. You need to have a serious talk with him. But if it's Myspace you are speaking of, my hubby doesn't like it either. He says it's kind of like 'advertising' yourself, so that's just one opinion you might consider. But the other stuff...don't accept it!

Answer 6

i don't think he's jealous. although it maybe insecurity. You should reassure him of your love for him. also you should encourage him and help him with his weight lose. G/L

Answer 7

Maybe

Answer 8

he does sound jealous.  maybe he thinks you're rubbing your success in his face.  maybe he feels left out.

have you tried talking to him?  invite him out for a walk or to the gym with you?

Answer 9

he's probably just insecure about his appearance now that you're looking hotter... and insecure that you might be getting all fit and trim to find a new lover, not to be hot for him.... you might want to reassure him that you're slimming down to be HOT for HIM and then demonstrate for him ;-}

Answer 10

Nah he prolly just insecure with u looking all nice and sharing ur nice pics.  He cant compliment u cus he thinks it'll "go to ur head". term men use.  I dont think hes psycho just insecure. Try 2 motivate and encourage him 2 get fit also

Answer 11

Easy easy - here is the thing - HE DOES NOT CARE ABOUT YOUR WEIGHT!!! ...it is possible he loves you for you?  

Answer 12

Jealous is not the word.  I think that your recent image change has caused him to feel insecure about himself, that's why he's trying to constantly put you down because misery loves company.  Also, he could be worried that since you look better, you're probably more attractive to the opposite s*x and might go off to find someone better.

Answer 13

he's putting you down. that's wrong of him. jealous or not... his actions are unjustified. talk to him.