Is my husband pleasuring himself too much or having an affair?

Question

We hadn't done it for 3 weeks and I noticed that when he ejaculated there was but a small drop of s***n. Usually it's a lot.. He said, he's been 'tired'.

But I can only think that either he's already pleasuring himself or having an affair.

Can he really just be tired?

Answer 1

he's definitely pleasuring himself...just ask him...you'll be able to work things out  

Answer 2

Duh.

Answer 3

IT IS USUALLY hard to speculate or make a conclusion because we do not personally knew your husband very well. If your only conclusion is the drop of his s***n, he is either not up to it or haven't eat properly or killing himself to death in his work. By the way, you never mentioned what kind of work he does. If he is in a construction business yes I could say it is mostly a tiring job esp. the digging and the shoveling in a construction site but if he is a managerial position or merely in the office then I could say he simply pleasure himself a lot in the office now that the internet have p**n website. Could be he is just merely pleasuring himself. But if you really like to find out if he is having an affair I suggest you hire a PI for these kind of job, it is expensive but to make sure and to gather evidence it is worth it.

It is you that can answer it properly if he is tired or not because you are the wife, therefore investigate further his wallet, his cell phone, his bag, etc. DO NOT CONCLUDE anything unless you got a concrete evidence to prove it otherwise THIS IS ALL JUST A WITCH HUNT. Pity your husband working very well and all he got is suspicion.  

Answer 4

could just be tired, but i would have imagined that his ejaculate would have been what it usually is, otherwise i go for your two additional choses

Answer 5

Sounds to me he has been pleasing himself. Then yes after a man pleases himself it can make a man tired and not want to have s*x.

Answer 6

Not sure, but i am sure its one of your 2 guesses

Answer 7

Sounds like he's been masturbating a a lot.

Being tired that I know of wouldn't have any effect on the body's ability to produce sperm & ejaculate.

Answer 8

Unfortunately probably not If its just a little bit the only reason probably is that its been used, You can actually  use it up by multiple ejaculations, and if his normal is a lot then it probably isnt because he is tired, but it could be stress, but thats a lot of stress to stop s***n production. I would consider the fact that maybe he has just been masturbating or something except for the fact that it is more than probable that he lied when he said he was just tired. Ultimately though you have to decide if you trust him which im sorry to say is also very obvious you dont just by asking this question.

He could be tired and forgot he masturbated, or he could be tired from masturbation. Bad as it may sound if you have doubts you have to come right out and ask him The same three quesitons you asked here,  so basically any answer you get here is truly worthless.

My condolences, and compassion for your situation.

Answer 9

bugga that don't sound good. . .