My husband and I have always been on complete opposite ends of the spectrum when it comes to parenting. He's always been the kind of parent that expects perfection out of the kids and when they don't deliver, they get grounded or yelled at or get things taken away, etc. I'm more laid back. I expect the kids to obey the rules but I also realize that kids will be kids and I tend to let the small stuff slide.
For example: We got a new couch and if my husband sees one of the kids kneeling on it or hanging off the edge of it or jumping on it, he makes them sit on the floor the rest of the day. I'm not so militant about it, I'll give them 1 or 2 warnings, but if they continue to disobey, 3 or 4 or 5 times, that's when they get punished. Not necessarily sitting on the floor all day, but some form of punishment. This is just one example....but it's like this ALL the time. It's a constant argument between us. How can we come together and reach some kind of agreement as to how these situations should be handled? Thanks for any advice :)
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