Is my mom an abuser?

Question

My mom has abused me for years. She has hit me with spoons almost everyday. They would break on me. She pulled my hair and dragged me up the stairs. She punched me and scratched me. She gave me a rugburn all down my back because i wanted to stay with my mom and she wanted to be with her boyfriend. That happened when i was like 6. She chokes me, sits on me, and covers my mouth and nose all at the same time so i cant breath, i feel like i am going to die. I need to push her off of me because i am so scared. She brings new boyfriends around me all of the time too. They boss me around and she lets them. One of her boyfriends was drunk one day and he kept pulling down his pants and showing his private and peeing. He did this about 5 times. I was really scared, i was young. He took showers with my sister too. Anyways, my mom has abused me for years , swore at me, threatening me and made me feel like i was garbage. Everyone tells her what that what she does is bad and she doesnt care. She kept me away from my dad for months at a time. She has brainwashed me with her lies and left marks, bruises and me being sad with her abuse. Is she an abuser?

By the way, i am a boy, i am just on my sisters Yahoo account.

Thanks

Answer 1

Yes She Is and so are her boyfriends in all ways. Is there a teacher, a neighbor, any adult that you can talk to and let them know what is happening so they can call someone. If you can go with your sister to a hospital, police station {i know you are not keen on that but there will be someone who will listen}, a friend's parent {who isn't friends with your mother}, a youth center director, whomever you can get to safely. Also if there are animals in the house bring them with. Don't be afraid to tell an adult you trust. Your mother should not have the privilege of having you and your sister, you deserve to be nurtured and treated with understanding and love. Where do you live? i am worried about your safety and your well being. What a strong, courageous young man you are for realizing that it is not a good situation. It is neglect and abuse on so many levels. Please be careful and let me know how you are.  

Answer 2

just  tell  here   lay  off

Answer 3

i feel so bad for you :(

she is abusing you

cops are such dumbasses

call your dad or someone when she isnt home

Answer 4

Yes, that is a form of abuse. How old are you?  You should have when to a neighbors house to call the police instead of calling from you home. I hope you do the right thing by your sisters too.

Answer 5

your story is very sad, can't you go back to your daddy or better still check into a foster care facility. your mummy is very abusive, because apart from the physical damages she impose on you presently, you have difficulty in relating with others, and if you dont see the right therapists, it ll affect ur relationship with your own kids. you have to live your mummy house immediately, stay with your dad, grandparent or you check a social worker.

your mom also needs help, i think she suffers from a mind sickness.

i believe you know a little abt recording, next time this happens try and record it so you can use it as an evidence for the cops and all listening ears. make sure she dosen't know abt this or it ll rating ur purnishment.