My newborn twins had a doctor's appointment yesterday all the way across town. My mother told me she'd watch my 1 1/2 year old daughter and my 6 year old son because my three oldest started school that day (my 6 year old starts on Monday, he goes to a different school). She said yes, that she could do it. So I take my twins to the doctor and in the middle of the appointment, the receptionist comes in and says "Mrs. Lopez, your mother and two older children are here, can I send them in?" I said, "Sure." My mother comes in with my 1 1/2 year old in the stroller, baby bag slung over one of the handels and my 6 year old in her arms. She sets my son down and says "Caitlyn called and asked me to join her for lunch, can't bring the kids, tootles." and just leaves! The doctor tells me that my older kids can't stay in here, so luckily the receptionist's daughter was there and played with them in the waiting room until the appointment was over. When we got home, I put down the twins and my 1 1/2 year old for a nap and my 6 year old went next door to play with a friend. I called my mom and the minute she picks up and I say hi, she says "I'm not going to say sorry." and I say "What?" and she said "I have to put my social life in front of my grandkids and that isn't my fault!" I was quiet for two seconds and then I said "You made a promise Mom. You told me you'd watch them. That means if a friend calls and says 'Can you come to lunch.' you say 'As long as I can bring my grandkids, because I'm watching them.' How would you feel if someone had done that to you with me or any of my siblings?'" My mom said in a firm tone "Gabrielle(which no one ever calls me), the world doesn't revolve around you and your stuck-up @$$!" and she hung up.
Was I being stuck up or was she?
Help!
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