Is my mum is too protective ? (pleaseeee answer)?

Question

theres a boy i like and my nephew tried to get us together i dont no if he liked me but i sed i ***** go out with him cuz ma mum dont let me have a boyfriend cuz all my sisters were teen mums. now theyres a new girl in the picture and i still reallly like this boy please hellp

all answers welcome :)

x

Answer 1

hiya, tell your mum that its not fair to treat you like a baby.just because your sisters got pregnant,does not mean you will follow in there foot steps.ask your mum to put a bit of faith in you.tell your mum you will be leaving school in 2 years time,and you need to get some confidence.i wish you all the best,and hope your mum is understanding.xx

Answer 2

my mothers the same u.u, but i understand y ur mum wont let u tho *sigh* thats how it goes my frend, aint no one gonna trust us lol

Answer 3

As a mum I think you need to sit down with your mum and talk honestly with her. Explain that you understand she's worried about you because of your sisters, but you've learnt from their mistakes. If you make it clear you're grown up enough to talk about it with her, you stand a good chance of her giving you more freedom. Just dont expect too much, and dont rush her.

Answer 4

why not see what happens naturally with this boy.Just go out and have fun and take it from there.If you then still like this boy ask your mum if its ok.Remember,you dont need to have s*x to have fun.You dont have to follow in your sisters footsteps but you do need to enjoy being a teenager.Youre mum should appreciate that.

Answer 5

How old are you? It is very, very hard for mothers to trust their precious daughters with boys - but at the end of the day, they have to let you grow up and trust you not to make stupid mistakes.

Reassure her that you will take things slowly with this boy and won't let it get physical too quickly... and make sure you stick to that promise!

Answer 6

tell your mum that your not stupid enough to get knocked up in your teens unlike your sisters

Answer 7

So basically you're looking for something to say to your mum to convince her to let you have a boyfriend? So BASICALLY, you need to prove to your mum that you are more intelligent and responsible then your sisters, and will not have a baby before you are truly ready? Just checking I understand the question.