Is my negative side right or my positive side when it comes to men?

Question

One day I believe a man is attracted to me, one day I say no way. One day I say maybe. Most of the time I think high or low & nothing can stop me from thinking this way. I usually believe the glass is half empty as my love life has always sucked. I am not an obvious flirt, so maybe that is why I can never tell if a man is attracted to me. Also, I never can believe a man is. I can also be standoffish. One day I can TOTALLY convince a friend of mine that a man I like isn't attracted to me & one day I can TOTALLY convince her that he isn't. I really overly analyze things, too! A lot of the time a man I date will say, "No, you are wrong, I wasn't thinking that about you (meaning a bad thing I think he is thinking)." Which side of me can I trust?

Answer 1

As a guy, let me say...guys are a lot easier to figure out than you think.  It may be that you are absolutely right at all times.  The guy may like you one day and not the next!

Most guys are scared to death of talking to a girl, especially one they like.  So the guy who is ignoring you probably wished you'd talk to him.

If you like a guy, talk to him.  If he doesn't like you, then I guarantee you can do better on the next one.

Just go for it.  Guys are not complicated.

Answer 2

Hmmmn...you are confused!

The best thing to overcome it is to have a faith and trust in yourself.  Establish your best side and continue nurturing the good things in you.

You are a nice person so every decision you shall take shall be the best one for you.

God Bless!

Answer 3

The optimistic side. what do you stand to lose, when you assume something favorable to you?  

Answer 4

Wow...it sounds like you have a constant battle with yourself, and from the sounds of it you can't really trust any one side of you. You're seeing it in a very black and white form. Think of it like this; you have a fairy and a demon on your shoulder. The fairy is saying that he is into you, and the demon is saying he isn't into you? Now, think about whether or not that is giving you a clear picture of reality...

You have to have a clear sense of reality to get anywhere. If you only believe one side you will either be down and depressed or you'll convince yourself of some phantasy land that doesn't even exist. When you're in a situation you really have got to get control over these up and down emotions. Ask yourself questions...what are the facts? What's really happened. WHat does he mean? And when you can't answer these questions without making up something to amuse your brain, ask HIM.

Answer 5

u know dats d power of mind u never know wat 2 decide unless u know abt d circumstances so stick on 2 ur lines nd think acc 2 circumstances