Is my partner cheating on me?

Question

Is he cheating??

My partner needed to go on a course due to his work.he said that most likely he wouldn't be able to be in touch until Sunday night..How is that possible??he has the cellphone!!.When i mentioned that he said ok he will call Saturday night..but he didn't.Also he said the company doesn't have that much money to spend so they took away his rental car and provided him with a company car..Now ..the course starts on Monday and ends on Friday..would the company pay for his extra days in the hotel??That means arriving on Saturday before the course starts and the course ends on Friday but he leaves on a Sunday...

Answer 1

Yes he's cheating, i am with that group, we had parties planned for every night that included many different things for many different shall we say tastes.

Answer 2

I think he's either cheating, hoping to get lucky, or just wants some extra time away from you. for whatever reason. In any case, it's probably not good. Most companies are NOT going to pay for so many extra nights at a hotel. That alone is a red flag. Do what you have to do - but you need to find out what's up for your own piece of mind. Is anyone else from the company going on this trip? Who? Can you call his hotel room, not just his cell phone? (I assume he's told you where he's staying. You have enough reasonable doubt that you could at least ask him why he's going for two extra days at each end - especially when most companies pay for only one at the beginning & expect you to leave right after the course is over. Something is just not right here. Good luck!

Answer 3

Is there other behavior that leads you to think he is cheating or is it just this trip in question?

Answer 4

Sounds very suspicious.  I would believe he is cheating.  There is unaccountability.  He should call you.  There is absolutely no reason not to call.  When he gets home, sit him down and have a conversation about this.  Hear his explanations and then decide what your next step will be.  More than likely he will lie, so be prepared and strap on the hip boots for the manure.  Good luck.

Answer 5

look babe..

stuff happens.

who knows..something could've come up..

the real issue here is trust..

do u trust him?

it doesnt seem so..

has he done anything in the past.

you need to find out what's wrong with your relationship or if he's being untrustworthy,get out of the relationship.

otherwise..

trust is very important.

and you need to find out how u can gain it in ur relationship..

think about if he's earned trust in the past..

try and give him the amount of trust u feel he deserves..

xoxo~

<3 feriell

Answer 6

Call his company and ask if you are that worried. But the cell phone thing ehh that sounds kinda iffy but if you really want to find out just call his work. Crazy but you got to do what you got to do,

Answer 7

Yeah. Sounds a bit fishy. Companies generally pay for the night before and the night after classes. Especially when they're cutting back.  

Answer 8

sorry, but it sounds suspicious to me. My guy travels too. When the job is over on Friday he has to take his bag with him to work because check out is at 11am. He comes home directly from the job on Fri and is home that night. If he starts Monday...he goes directly to the job and gets his hotel key after work that day because check in is not until 3PM. All standard.  Yours is up to something Hon...sorry. Call the Hotel and ask if he is checked in. Don't let him play you.   OR call his job on Monday and tell them that you lost the number to the hotel. Then ask too if it is OK that he gets calls from you...   good luck!

Answer 9

It is possible that the course was cancelled until Monday. If that occurred some companies would be willing to pay for the additional costs. If you have a gut feeling about this, call the company and inquire about the course. Be polite and act concerned about it. You don't even need to tell who you are if you play your cards right.  

Answer 10

I would think if he was cheating that he would call you as much as possible so you wouldn't catch on. However, his story does sound a little fishy.

Answer 11

i dont feel like there is any reason to go one whole day & not be able to speak to you on the cell phone. its a cell phone. & why is he telling you before hand so that you will prepare for it? will he be somewhere or in someones presence which would make it inconvenient for him. for that reason alone, it sounds suspicious....he should want to speak w/ you each day he's there.  

Answer 12

i doubt based on just this he is cheating... check his cell phone if he texts or see who he calls and who calls him when he was not home..