Is my relationship doomed?

Question

I've been dating this babe on and off for awhile and most of the time we get along OK. What worries me is every time we get along OK she starts talking about marriage -- we've both been married before, her twice and me 2 1/2 times so I really don't know if I'm cut out for marriage. My ex-wife is a mental case and I'm wondering about this gal now. Why just last night she got mad at me for stopping-up her toilet. I asked her why in the heck does she buy that dang soft tissue with the aloe on it cause that's what stopped it up and then she blew up and tossed the dripping plunger at my face. The only reason I'm here typing while she's snoring is because she doesn't like my friends and talked me into staying 'home' with her tonight.

What do I do?

Answer 1

Lol, I think you're the psycho here buddy. Your ex pooped on your steps? Lol. I'm sure you deserved it. She should have pooped on you though. :-D

Answer 2

shes crazy

run for ur life

Answer 3

sounds like she is in a crappy mood, let her sleep it off

Answer 4

Sounds like you have had rough deal with women so far, no wonder you are in no hurry to get married. Unfortunately i think your girlfriend is very insecure and a bit of a control freak that's why she feels the need to talk marriage all the time. It would be a bad mistake to even consider marriage with her because if she's trying to get you under the thumb now what hope have you got if you married her? If she can't change her ways i'd break off the relationship before she sends you around the "twist!"

Answer 5

you need to manup cowboy, your not doing you or her any favors.

Answer 6

well you can first answer this... how do you get married 2 1/2 times?  

Answer 7

I think that maybe you two need to communicate better.  Fighting over a "plugged up toilet" is a kind of trivial thing to fight about.  Understand that each other become frustrated with things and it is crucial to listen and try to cater to the others tensions, even when you think it's silly.  Choose your battles.  If she convinces you to stay home with her, it's most likely not because she doesn't want you to be having fun...it's probably her crying out for something else, even if it's just spending time together.  I know I always feel better when my boyfriend is in bed with me.  As far as her tossing ANYTHING at you---what is that about?  Is that something she does often?  I would be concerned if she does it a lot.  That could get worse.  But if she was just tense about the situation and she threw it in a sudden burst of anger, it can be forgiven.  As long as it's not a habit of hers to be physically violent.

I've been married and divorced, too.  I know it can be hard.