Is my relationship insecure?

Question

I tend to get very, very jelous when i'm with my boyfriend & there are other pretty girls around. It doesn't seem like he's checking them out, but I always assume he is. Or if we are watching a movie, and a girl pops of like naked or something. He always tells me how much he loves me, my body, and everything. I just am a very insecure girl, and I hate it. I get hit on all the time, but it doesn't seem to make me feel any better about myself. Any adive as to how to get so NOT jealous when I am with my boyfriend and there are other girls around.

-Signed,

Insecure :/

Answer 1

when there are pretty girls around keep reminding yourself that he chose you, not them.  he could easily stop and talk to those girls but he doesn't because you're his girlfriend.  when he tells you he loves you believe him because its true. you dont need random guys hitting on you to make you feel better about yourself.

Answer 2

Think of jealousy as a red flag. For you.. you need to work on your self esteem. For him, it doesn't matter what he says.. what he does will tell yu what you need to know.

Try telling him you feel jealous and ask for his reassurance. If he blows you off.. dump him

If he is kind and reassures you, you have a winner

Answer 3

ooh! I feel your pain lol! I learned the hard way. In a relationship , there has GOT TO BE TRUST. Its normal to get jealous a few times, we're all human. Depending on how long you guys been together you should trust him. This works with me, whenever you see a token pretty girl, and you begin to get that jealous feeling inside, just think to yourself, "who's hands   is he holding, who's he with now? ME." Its tough but you gotta trust him and learn to love yourself ! :] hope that helps.

xoxo -anythinq else im here! :]  

Answer 4

Just tell yourself he is your boyfriend, if he wasn't he wouldn't be with you now.