Is my s*x drive too high?

Question

I feel like my partner can't keep up with me. I know guys are really sexual, and he is, but it just seems like I'm more sexual than most guys I know. I think about s*x a lot. I don't know if Ive gone more than 5 minutes without thinking about it.

I can't find any guys that can keep up with me... Is this my fault or his?

Answer 1

Wish i could find women like you. Hes lucky if you ask me...

Answer 2

If you find that "most guys" can't keep up with you, this is something that you should think about in terms of yourself, primarily.  How many different people have you actually slept with to be able to compare?  If you are not in a serious relationship, you can always consider measuring up against other types of people (but don't forget the rubber^^).

If you find that you really would rather calm down, you may consider a nutritional basis to your aid:  try taking 500mg-1.5g of L-Tyrosine with a Green Tea Extract ($3 at target) to increase your Dopamine levels (apparently, girls' s*x drive diminishes with increased Dopamine), and if it by chance has the opposite effect, try taking 1-2g of an L-Tryptophan supplement instead (on an empty stomach), with a small non-protein dessert--such as a chocolate bar, to increase Serotonin levels.  These are both natural amino acids found in foods, and they should help regulate your neurotransmitter levels in a way that will hopefully lower your overactive s*x drive.

If none of this helps, you could always practice Yoga to learn to channel and transmute your overabundant sexual energy via chakra centers into spiritual growth (a truly amazing phenomenon that opens you up to life in every way possible--since you are lucky enough to have a lot of this type of energy :P).  Successfully practicing this will allow you to put your mind to productivity instead of your partner's pants much more often--or whenever you so choose!!

Lastly, you can probably just see a doctor--there are plenty of ways for girls to diminish their s*x drive.  Or just have a lot more orgasms. :}  That's always a not-such-a-bad way to do it (and stimulating to any partner).

Answer 3

If your motor runs faster than his - it aint gonna work.  Let the guy down easy & move on.  He will be crushed - but he'll get over it. Not to mention relieved at having to try keeping up such a hectic pace.  Some people are just not suited for each other - that's just the way it is.

Answer 4

you wouldn't be thinking that if you were with me, we'd be having s*x all the time

Answer 5

If you want to keep this man, you may need to take of yourself while he's in his refractory period.  

Answer 6

you should be with me, my s*x drive is ridiculously high and my girlfriend doesn't want s*x until marriage. i'm horny all the time, i say you find a guy tahts more like you, thats what i'm starting to think i should do.

Answer 7

When you say your s*x drive is too high, do you mean something like you have to have s*x at least a half dozen times a day every day? If that's true, you probably crossed over in to a sexual addiction.

Otherwise, I'd say you're normal. Different people have different amounts of s*x drive. If your partner can't keep up, and pleasing yourself doesn't tide you over, you might want to think of finding a different partner.

Answer 8

YES DEFINITELY YOU have a very high sexual drive mechanism. As if you are a s*x machine, ready to rumble at a given time or place. NO NOT ALL GUYS are sexual in nature. You never know that there are a BIG difference between men and women esp. in s*x. When men ejaculated they are already sleepy and ready to call it a night, while a woman can have a multiple o****m if in the right stroke in just one night.

Even if you think about s*x a lot that is pretty normal, you are still young I suppose. Nope definitely not your fault. It is within your hormones, there is too much of it. Just reduce the s*x in your mind for a while do something more useful like hobbies or sports.