Is my sister telling me the truth? does this happen to all girls?

Question

my sister decided to try giving me the "boys" lecture earlier today. i just remembered she told me i will be wanting them to touch me and even have s*x. i never wanted s*x yet!! she told me now that i had my period it will be worse. is she telling me the truth? am i going to want s*x at 14?! i never even had a boyfriend or kissed one or anything. i did get this weird feeling down there once. i ignored it and it went away. was totally random.

Answer 1

You are definitely going to have more interest in boys, but take what she says about wanting them to touch you and have s*x as only her opinion.  Everyone has opinions.  s*x and wanting boys to touch you is a choice made by you.  It is your body, respect it.  You will know when you are ready for s*x and touching, it does not necessarily happen just because you have gotten your period.  Respect yourself, honor yourself and only do what you want to do and what is right for yourself.

Answer 2

You are only 14 years old so having s*x is many years away.

She might have been trying, in her own odd way, to let you know about the "birds and the bees"/aka s*x!

Answer 3

You will want s*x eventually but don't rush it,it's not the big deal that everyone makes it out to be.Its good to find a young lady thats not focused on s*x!!!Too bad there aren't more teenagers like you.

Answer 4

MY hormones went all out of control for a while and I was super horny, but thats just me.

Answer 5

dont worry about wat people tell you...you will have s*x wen your ready...

Answer 6

Oh haha. Trust me: wen i was younger i was like no way ewwww i never going to want to kiss and mess around with boys then all of a sudden everything changed and i started going boy crazzy. lma0. but umm. i jus control myself & yeah wen you have those feeling you jus have to control your self and not go around doing crazzy things. just have self respect. =)

Answer 7

Well of course it is truth! That how it is with all people on earth! Didnt you know that without a talk? omg...

Answer 8

you are too too young to have s*x hunni, you are only 14. that "weird feeling" you got is perfectly normal, it's a sign of you growing up and puberty, your sis is doing the right thing though in telling you to be careful!

Answer 9

It is not the same with every girl. I would tell your mom what she said because it sounds like she is doing things she shouldn't.