Is on-line love, real love?...I asked another question and one answerer...?

Question

Said that on-line love isn't "real" that question was here >>> http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AuufDvflwL1FSZ4mQQ8cEpYazKIX;_ylv=3?qid=20080901192614AABtYZS

So what do you think? Please give detailed answers.

I for one believe it CAN be real but I also know it's a tricky area.

Answer 1

Yes you can fall in love from a on-line situation! It has  happened to me . But you have to be careful and remember that people are not always who they seem to be from a phone or a computer, when they are in person they can be very different and you have to meet that person and spend time with them in person to know if you are actually attracted to how they are in a face to face situation. I was luckily and I was . but you cant just spend a little time together you have to start a base and get where you can start meeting one anther whenever possible and spend that time together but also be safe about it don't just meet them alone because you may have know them along time and they could end up on being a harmful person so make sure you have friends and family with you meeting them and learning who they are as well! Love can happen from afar and it can be unimaginable!

Answer 2

It CAN be real, but here's the thing, there's always the limits and boundaries, what can you do with intimacy? State you love each other? What happens if you want to extend the relationship to a-whole-nother level? All you can do is swap the numbers, emails, etc. Maybe send erotic pictures to another, watch each other on webcam? Not exactly a good relationship to hold, now don't get me wrong, there are some successful marriages based off of internet relationships such as yours.

All you can do is try and try some more to meet up in person, you never know how much more it will grow, I would imagine if you two really REALLY share each others' feelings such as displayed, then it should definitely become a much stronger, much more romantic relationship. But as easily it can grow, it can also easily shatter, just focus on each other and know how far you can go and how far you SHOULD go, therefore, it shouldn't go the way you wouldn't want it.

Answer 3

No, Never ever ever ever ever. Chatting on-line without seeing each-other, being with each-other or nothing with each-other is not love, its totally fake, i think this is a stupid question. Your not stupid, just unsure. Well i say its fake. You can't love someone you don't even know their name, or how they look like. If you don't know them, it isn't love, Just an urge to talk like boyfriend and girlfriend to each-other.

Answer 4

I think there can be on-line attraction.  I don't believe there can be true love until you have actually met the other person.

Answer 5

I have three friends I made on here whom I have genuine feeling for, meaning I care how they are doing, and greatly appreciate the comraderie we share, and  miss it when its not around even.

One of these I do beleive I'd jump in front of a car for...that sure seems REAL to me...

But what we're doing isnt dating. And so it can just be what it is without any worries, at all.

I dont beleive I'd ever try dating online...because i dont see that a cyber experience could be anything more than a precursor to then having to meet in person, and then learn about each other that way.  (And since youre going to have to do that anyway, do it first!    ...because -when it comes to dating- a lot of "no go's" can be weeded out in person..while online you just arent exposed to those physical elements which produce "chemistry"...so you can end up investing, and never really knowing that it isnt even going to be a workable relationship in the end.

And people can hide so much, and pretend so easily over the internet...and you need to be there to 'feel' them.

I'm trying to consider this through...but the only conclusion I  come to..is date in person, no matter what it takes to  get to wherever you need to go to meet people, get it done. You need to. You deserve to. And you cant do the whole thing online anyway.

Honest...join a group!  FIND one.

Dont take excuses from yourself.

Answer 6

I guess it all depends on someone's interpretation of what "love" really is and how it can be measured. I don't think on-line love is real because I value the physical aspects of love

Answer 7

online love sint real sweety