Is our relationship living off of s*x?

Question

ive been with my boyfriend for 4 months now. for the past 3 months we've could carry on convos about anything and not even bring up sexuall things we've done to each other.

now, thats what he mainly likes to talk about and he usually brings up 's*x talk' in most of our convos when theres not much to talk about.

ugh...

Answer 1

He might just be happy and excited that he has been getting so much action. Men as a whole tend to re route their thought process. Try to steer him in another direction maybe talk about the olympics and some future plan. He sounds good to me though.

Answer 2

That is pretty normal for younger guys.  He is in full s*x mode and right now that is what is on his mind most of the time.  The key here is to get him out and about with you doing some other things and having fun.  That will help get him out of that mode to some degree.

Answer 3

i dont think it is based on s*x but he obviuosly has a high s*x drive. talk to him about it and if he cant talk seriously aboout your worries you need to think carefully about what you want out of the relationship fun or real life

Answer 4

that's life

Answer 5

well i always say you should talk a lot about s*x and keep everything open and interesting...if this is something new to him he is just excited thats what most guys think about and talk about 24-7....s*x talk for guys is very normal and fun...so quit talking about it now and have fun.

Answer 6

You must have rocked his world.  :-)

Start the conversation by discussion whatever, politics, school, family anything.  When he brings up s*x, smile at him like he's cute and continue talking.  Never acknowledging that you actually paid attention to what he said.   Continue doing this each and every time he does this.  

Either he will get tired of the game and stop.  Or, he will show his true colors and tell and/or show you what he thinks of the relationship.