Is phone s*x cheating????

Question

Ok, so I have this bf that I love I been with him for more then a yr n a half, but b4 I meet him I love having phone s*x n Cyber s*x with other guys. I still have guys calling me n text's me for phone s*x or flirting text's msg's and sometimes I still Cyber too...well I want to get different opinions do u think that's wrong to do? I'm a ca cheater???

**** By the way my bf doesn't know any of this he knew I chatted alot b4 I meet him n know's I txt msg other guys but doesn't know our topic.

Answer 1

Instead of calling you a s**t, I'm going to actually give you advice.

Well, I kinda feel like I'm in the same situation.  I had phone s*x with a guy and my boyfriend has no clue.  Although, I consider this emotionally cheating, its not.  If it was with a guy I cared about, even one of my guy friends, I would consider it emotionally cheating.  However, I DONT care about this guy.  Better yet, I don't even know why I did it.  I will probably never even allow myself to be put in a situation to hook up with this guy.  I could never allow myself to cheat on my boyfriend.

But, I wouldn't let yourself feel guilty about it.  Obviously stop, its not right.  And I regret doing it.  But if you don't feel emotionally attached to any of these people, I don't think your boyfriend has to know.  If you do want to let your boyfriend know, then more power to you.  Bottom line, just stop.  Sending pictures is NOT the best idea.

Why don't you try phone s*x with your boyfriend?

Answer 2

Ask your boyfriend. I am sure he will love to hear all about your extracurricular activities. Better yet, how about I tell him what his hoe of a girlfriend is really doing. I am sure even more so that he would love to hear it from someone else.

COME ON! Have some freaking common sense and respect. You are a cheater because you are hiding this from him. You are committing yourself to other men...and yes through phone s*x and cyber s*x...just the word s*x should kind of point you in the right direction.

How would it make you feel if your boyfriend was the one doing this?  

Answer 3

i mean if u go by look but dont touch theory its all good .. but then u got  

think if the situation was switched and he was doin that would u consider cheating  

Answer 4

Yes, it is cheating.

Answer 5

I don't think so, but I don't get how anyone enjoys phone or cybersex.  You have no idea who you are really in contact with.  I would rather just watch a p**n movie and fantasize.  At least I can see something there.

Answer 6

Yes it is. How would he feel if he knew you were doing this.?

Answer 7

Yes, it is cheating. Why don't you just do it with your bf? If your bf knows about that,he would be hurt and will feel betrayed.  

Answer 8

post your number ... i'll check-out how s**y ur voice is.

Answer 9

NOT SURE

BUT WHATS YOUR NUMBER?

Answer 10

You are cheating, big time. If you don't stop, you will lose your bf.

Answer 11

uh i guess its up to u  how would u feel if he did that to u yes i pesonally thnk its cheating but thats my opinion i mean ur still talkn to guys and all so idk its up to u i guess