Is p**n bad for a 15 year old to watch?

Question

i am 15 years old im a female; i watch p**n like i am addicated to it; my biological father watches p**n; and i think it has gotten in to me now. i pray every night to ask god to help me stop watching it. do anyone have anyy suggestions??

Answer 1

First off, if your father watches p**n, the WHY THE h**l does he not hide it from his children.  Is not okay! Everyone will say its okay.

But it demeans s*x, a beautiful thing.  A lot of things demean s*x nowadays, but p**n is one of the worst.

You don't have to watch it.  If you wanted to stop you could.  You don't really want to stop.  Watching it is more important than doing the right thing.  

How about instead of prayingto God every night, pray every time you get the urge to watch p**n.  The guilt should help.

Answer 2

In my opinion, I would say yes that it is bad. I would not want my child to watch p**n if she was your age. Your father should never have let you watch it. But he did and that doesn't matter now. I would just say to find yourself something else to do when you find yourself wanting to watch it. Read a  book or magazine, watch a normal movie that any teenager your age would want to watch, go to a friends house (if your parents will take you). Anything else to keep your mind away from that idea. And continue to pray. He will  answer your prayer and it's usually when you're not expecting it. Good luck with it.  

Answer 3

well in one way it can be it can make you want to have s*x because you nearly know what it feels like but if s*x is off your mind fully and you don't intend to have any till your older well then i would say your fine loads of 15 year olds watch p**n its natural  x  

Answer 4

Claiming it to be an addiction is a cop-out. It's an excuse to make it sound like it can't be helped.  Anything you want to change you can but you have to make the effort to do so.  If your father got drunk and dove off the Brooklyn Bridge would it make it ok for you to do it too? No, that is just trying to justify why you do it. Read your bible and pray and ask God to help you clean your heart up because change comes from the heart, not the lips.

Answer 5

Yes.  Your should know that alot of images are of people held against their will for your entertainment.  (I'm not speaking of the mags that are of consenting adults).

Answer 6

I would say inappropriate but not bad.  The problem is that it is so far from realistic and it sounds like you have a bit of an addiction to it----you certainly need to concentrate on school, social life - "normal" 15 yr old things and live your life in reality.  I would be concerned about a sexual addiction that could get out of hand as you are mixing reality with fantasy...and despite how you feel or what you think - you are SOOOOOOO young and have so much to look forward to other than s*x!

Answer 7

Technically it's illegal.

But to quit, just occupy yourself with a lot of other stuff in your life. If you're busy and actually have a LIFE then you won't have time to watch p**n.

Answer 8

No

Answer 9

nope..

it's better to watch p^^n

rather than being pregnant^^..

and masturba^^ng

is normal..

just don't hurt yourself..

Answer 10

At that age your hormone's are off the charts. That could have something to do with it. Also maybe you watch a regular ammount of p**n but you think its alot. I'll tell you right now, pretty much everyone (man and woman) looks at p**n, especially on the internet. Its normal to like p**n, dont feel shame. And don't listen to ally, obviously you can have a life and still watch p**n, geez.

Answer 11

Yes, it is bad.  It will give you a warped view of s*x.  God has nothing to do with this.  Stop logging on and looking at p**n, you are in control - it is all up to you.

Answer 12

Hey, www.pureintimacy.org

Email me... I'd like to help you out.

I am 15 years old too and I am a girl. I struggle with p**n addiction too. My dad watches p**n but I think that I am a worse addict than him. He doesn't know that. I am g*y too. So, feel free to email me.

I'd like to hear from you.  

Answer 13

Why would you even know your father is watching p**n? What the heck is wrong with this picture! Think!

p**n gives health s*x a bad rap.You can bet it additive ever heard of s*x addict? Jeffery Boomer got his start watching p**n.

I am sure you can find something more fun than this.

Answer 14

Wait, if your father watched p**n in front of you that is sexual abuse!!  

Answer 15

it's illegal.  is it bad?  that's a moral question only you can determine.  the fact that you're asking us makes me think you know the answer.

Answer 16

Watch whatever you want to watch you don't give a d**n what everybody says. You will soon grow out of it.  

Answer 17

The only reason p**n is bad is because it teaches you things that are not good for a 15 year old to think about s*x. The acts they commit in p**n are usually vulgar and most people don't even do it. p**n doesn't teach you that s*x is about doing it with someone you love it just shows you gross things a person your age shouldnt think about and shows anorexic girls with huge b***s and ripped guys with giant penises. It's all fake.

I think you should definitely stop watching p**n. It's not good for you to think about things like this constantly. Just stop watching it. Really its easy. Don't go to p**n websites. Dont buy or rent tapes. (If you have any p**n tapes just give them to your father) And wipe out any p**n on your computer. Eliminate it from your past and dont even think twice about it =)

Answer 18

Yes it is bad, it will rot your mind.  Continue to pray and try to occupy yourself when you feel the urge to watch it.  

Answer 19

Gouge your eyes out with a hot poker!  oKay, not really.  I think it is natural to be curious about pornography.  Being addicted to it is another issue.  What is it that you find so appealing about it...ask yourself.  This will tell you more why you are watching it.  p**n is not healthy as it gives you a bad perspective on s*x and relationships in reality and other people.  With s*x, comes emotion and attachment (usually)...p**n doesn't deal with these things, it is more fantasy.  Trying to make yourself stop because you feel guilty isn't going to work.  Ask yourself why you're doing it.  Praying is good...if you slip up...get right back on track...it's just like a diet or any other addiction...don't wallow in guilt...get up and start over again and again.

Answer 20

That is just sick...you get rid of your movies you have and just dont watch them...this is why youth today is suffering...**** like this. How did you get the movies, why do you know your dad watches it? Now what your prolly gonna go out and have s*x now...get pregnant, go on welfare...just please get rid of the movies, and watch Hannah Montana or something isnt that what 15 yr olds do these days. And save yourself til you get married, it will be so much more special then the fake c**p you see in those movies.

Answer 21

It's bad for a father to watch p**n in front of a child!

You probably wouldn't be into it so much if he wasn't such a bad role model for you to copy.

God won't stop you from doing anything - he gave us all free will.

Only you can stop.

Yes you are too young to be thinking about s*x because s*x is for adults that are prepared to deal with the possibility that it leads to pregnancy. A 15 year old is not old enough to deal with that.

Just watching it is one thing - but it will lead to you wanting the real thing and that is where the danger lies for you.

How do you get p**n at your age anyway? It is illegal for your parents to leave it in front of you - so are you stealing it from your parents? or downloading it from the net? It is for over 18's for a reason. You and your parents can get into trouble with the police for that - it is a crime.

Play with yourself in your room if you must - but leave p**n alone - it attracts bad energies and will prevent you from finding your true love.

Answer 22

personally, i'm sad to say i have walked that path.  i know it wasn't a good idea.

that was almost a year ago. and i'm still battling with it.

i think that p**n shouldn't be watched by anyone.

but.

ok. just praying and hoping God'll help you is a good start.  (also it helps if your already a Christian. or of whatever religion your god belongs to.  no offense)

but you have to want to quit watching it.

and you have to make an effort on your part. like, if you know theres a certain time of day you go watch it, avoid the tv or the comp or the magazines or however you watch the p**n.

try to find a better thing to get "addicted" to....  like drawing or something.

trying to stop watching p**n is kinda like trying to stop smoking (i never have smoked.)  you want to, you try not to, but it gets the best of you.

its gonna be difficult to stop cold turkey, so don't try.

this may sound crazy, but cut down on the amount of time you spend watching it gradually.

and pray.

pray like you never have before....

good luck.....

(sry if that sounds a little soapboxy...  i've spent the last 2 hours typing essays on wars....  )