Is "Fake" just a Human Weakness to be easily excused ?

Question

Is "Fake" just a Human Weakness to be easily excused ?

Answer 1

No "fake" should not be excused, its never having to learn about things outside your own exsistance, or ever risk your soul to the good or bad in this world. plus the "fake"  taunt, sabotage and hurt those who dont hide behind a mask. The very things they fear others to do to them.  they become everything they hate and fear, and never even question it.

Answer 2

no one should be excused for being fake....be you...take it or leave it....so many people in the world...you just have to find the right one who will like you as you....so you don't have to fake things...be true...enough....anyway they will find out the real thing.............

Answer 3

Everybody has "masks" they put on for certain situations in life...

Whether it be at a "family reunion," visiting Mom or Dad, going to a party, whatever...

None of us could EVER be considered "normal," if we didn't have different "masks to wear" in different social or family situations, including "Marriage..."

Ask anyone, including yourself...

Do YOU not feel uncomfortable when people you are "not so close to" suddenly "drop their masks," and reveal to you their deepest thoughts about life, love, and reality?

Even the closest married couple (in my opinion) run into trouble the micro-second they reveal their "unmasked personal realities..."

I believe the very reason our society and culture exists in relative harmony, is because Modern Day Humans have developed a "very polite way" of dealing with all other people's "individual personal realities..."

THIS is the best we can do to live with the dichotomy of being "social" AND "individual..."

So...

Let's make love and party together...and maybe be together forever...who knows?  (chaka chaka chaka, I do not lie...hee hee)

Answer 4

...the ones who have come to rely on "fake" belief may think they have all the excuses in the world to back up their claims...why this is so ?...I just don't know...is it a weakness ?...I think it is just as much a weakness as being too closed minded is a hindrance

Answer 5

Who has the right to know the real you? Total honesty is easily exploited by con artists and users.

Answer 6

Yes because it's easier to label "fake" than to delve any deeper than that.

Answer 7

nope, it is forgivable but unforgetable

Answer 8

no dear! fake is one of the few things impossible to ignore and excuse. because it implies someone acting as different from what they really are, someone trying to pretend they are someone else... with a reason or a goal, neither of them ever innocent!

you make a huge difference between what's happening on a stage in a theater and real life? well, just think that theater is an entertainment...while being fake is someone's theater with the possible purpose of stabbing you in the back one day...

Answer 9

No "fake" is only used by people that 1. Don't know how to be real but think that they are being real or 2. They choose to be fake to play that role. Either way it is not a weakness unless they see it as one that does not work for them. Excuse it and if it bothers you, find people who choose to be real.

Answer 10

'Easily excused'?  No dear,  it hurts a lot,  not that easy...no body likes to be duped.

But once you realise something or someone to be 'fake',  choice is yours whether to continue or drop...

Answer 11

yea i guess you could say that. i think fake is a mask of your personality. people act fake so they dont show any weaknesses. they feel less vulnerable when they act fake.

Answer 12

Yes and no.

Yes ... for the ignorant.

No ... for the knowing.

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