Is s*x connecting or guys?

Question

Me and my boyfriend lost our virginity to each other about a month and a half ago we are both in our 20's and we had been having s*x for about a month until one night he said he felt it was very intense and connecting and he felt like we were connected "as one".

can a guy feel that "emotional connection" from s*x cause he is just a virgin or does that have to come from sincere feelings???

PLEASE ONLY GUYS ANSWER

Answer 1

if you don't trust what he says, why you f**king him?

Answer 2

emotional connection is a good thing is bout his feelings

Answer 3

just pure infatuation

Answer 4

There's brain chemistry going on during s*x that gives off endorphins and the feeling of connection and trust. This goes with both sexes, as it's a natural human response.

As for being virgins, the lack of experience and the intensity of the situation might give them that lovey-dovey feeling (even if it's a little premature in the relationship). Virgin males aren't exactly the most logical sometimes.

Or it could be completely sincere, who knows. Every person is individual.

Answer 5

Um, I thought he wasn't a virgin when he said that?

Sounds serious, in any event.

Answer 6

sounds sincere to me

Answer 7

lucky you. You managed to get one of us guys who ISNT afriad to show emotion.

And yes guys can feel an emotional connection through intimacy.

I had another experience that proved that last night, lol.

Lets just say that X was relatively sober and Y was completely sober, and Y was flirting, which lead to X playwrestling with Y and then led to Y giving X a peck and X seizing the moment and kissing Y full on.

Now if X and Y can both admit that they felt an emotional connection with just that, then of course a more thorough intimacy can be more intense.

Answer 8

your connected like super glue.

orr wait...

that wasn't super glue...

was it?

Answer 9

I can undestand that, and relate to it. Sometimes s*x is just..well... s*x. It's a physical release thing. But other times, when you are really close and you love your partner, for a guy s*x can be the single best and most intense way of expressing that love. It's not a power-trip thing (well, for some it might be but that goes for girsl as well), and it's not about 'posessing' your partner. It's about being physically 'part' of them, being joined to them, as one 'being' rather then two people.

As for 'being a virgin' that may have applied to the first few events, but by now the initial 'awe, fear of failure and wonder of it all' should be settling down and becoming more enjoyable as you begin to truly relax and explore each other.

Hey... Enjoy it.

Steve

Answer 10

Guys are more likely to keep s*x and emotional attachment separate, so I'd say "sincere feelings."