Is s*x really THAT important to a man?

Question

As a woman, I perhaps will never understand how important is s*x to a man. I mean, don't get me wrong, I will never deny my husband s*x. But I have to admit, if I don't get it on regular basis, I would probably be fine with it. ( I think most women agree with me. MOST )

But it seems to me that s*x is EXTREMELY important to a man. Almost as important as food and water? Am I correct?

I want to be a good wife to my husband. He's a great wonderful man who loves me very much. I am wondering how often is good enough to make him satisfied? Thanks

Answer 1

It's important for me and I'm a woman! To each its own....

Answer 2

My husband told me he would have s*x all day. Often after s*x -he is ready to do it all over again given the chance. It's truly amazing.  

Answer 3

how often?

Well it just really depends on the guy.  I know you dont want to hear that but if you give him s*x twice a week to start, then see if he is satisfed. If he is still asking from s*x other days then give it to him 3 or four.  I dont really think s*x should be on a timed bases.  One reason you get married is so you can have s*x when either man or woman wants.

Answer 4

I'd have to agree with you that I could go forever (almost) without it and have no problems.  On the other hand there is a real medical condition called blue balls. (I know it's a horrible term) It actually causes the man some pain and usually masturbation does not alleviate this pain enough to work for extended periods of time.  Sometimes s*x is the only answer.  Once to twice a week should be sufficient, but every relationship is different.  Ask your husband his feelings on this.  It should be a topic you are open to discussing with each other.  I totally disagree  with who said that if a woman is satisfied with her lover she will want it frequently as well.  I am highly satisfied with my husband, he always gets the job done and I enjoy myself very much.  On the other hand, we have two children and both work full time, there just aren't enough hours in the day to do everything I'd like sometimes.  I'm fine with s*x once or twice a week and the quality of it has nothing to do with it.  When we were dating, we had s*x daily, sometimes more frequently, but not since having children.

Answer 5

It is.  Its not so much a physical need as an emotional one.  If we're being sexually rejected, we feel emotionally rejected, distant, unconnected.

Men and women have evolved differently.  Both have a high drive to have great s*x, but men have a much higher drive to have 'okay' s*x.  For males, having s*x with 'less then ideal' females is still a good strategy vs. not having s*x.  For females, not having s*x is better then getting pregnant with a 'weak' male's children.  So while both want good s*x, women tend to ONLY want good s*x, men want any kind of s*x.

Second, hey, we fall in love.  Its likely that humans have evolved to do this because it lead to raising children together.  For a woman, any man she feels close to, respects, feels safe with good provider she can 'love' and feel bonded too.  Its a good 'strategy' to get help with kids.  For a male, evolutionary standpoint, being in 'love' with a woman you're not having s*x with is a good way to raise someone else's kids, i.e. a bad evolutionary strategy.

You can argue about how people should or shouldn't feel or what 'maturity' is or how people of the opposite gender 'would behave if they were good' or 'really in love', but people are what they are and feel what they feel.

Answer 6

It's  extremely important to me. Without it I would just die.

Answer 7

It is very important to a man. Men have higher s*x drives. If he doesn't get it from you, he might look elsewhere.

Answer 8

its like talkin for a woman

if women dont talk they will physically explode

imagine a marriage with no communication and no s*x

not pretty!!!!!!!!!

Answer 9

s*x is important to most married people.  Just continue to not deny your husband and all should be fine.  It all depends on the man... as much as he wants it.  

Maybe you can try some mental exercises to get you more in the mood.  For example, before he gets home, you can start imagining him lifting you up, holding you and kissing you.  By the time he comes home, you should be all prepared.  

What a wonderful thing to know that your husband loves you.  Just keep loving him and don't ask why he wants so much, just be happy he wants YOU.

Answer 10

Three times a week.I would have s*x with my gf everyday if she wanted to.s*x is important to a man.

Answer 11

s*x is very important to most men.. some men think that it is more important to make their wives happy though. i asked my husband this question.. he said once a day, at least every other day... preferably all day haha.. but my husband is only 22 and i think he has an extremely high s*x drive, so it really depends on your husbands age and drive, if it is high at least three times a week

Answer 12

You do have the right to say sno sometimes, that you don;t feel well, topo tuired, etc. If he gets angry, so be it. A ferw ties a werek is fab for most,. Some agree to twice daily. Some go for weeks woithotui it and love ane anpother. It;s about agrrement.

Something is under it all. I think you loive him, but don;t gtet turned on by hium sexually., Perrhaps you two need more fuyn time togehter or something, opr something to bring you lcoser. Maybe he is a sexagolic., get this all evaluted by pros top stay ion the same page.

Answer 13

My wife has  a low drive and would be fine with once a month!  She does attempt to get in the mood for me once a week.  Over our 11 years of marriage we probably average once  every 10 days.  Does that satisfy me sexually NO NO NO, so what do I do?  m********e!  It keeps me satisfied and every once in a while my wife will "lend me a hand" too!

I had to learn to accept her low drive and she had to learn to accept my high drive and accept that even though we are married I still m********e!  It was about a year of marriage before we worked it out, for the first year I complained about a lack of s*x and she complained that all I wanted was s*x!  Compromise and masturbation has made our 11+ year marriage strong (at least my right arm is).

Answer 14

Yes it is like food and water to them.  Actually if you haven't notice, they act really nice before they know they are going to get it.  Once they get it all they care about is their TV.  Typical man, as long as they are good we can try to satisfy them in every way.  Mine is really good and faithful, so he gets it when ever he wants.

Answer 15

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Answer 16

s*x is essential for me and all the women i know. if you dont want it you cant be sexually satisfied the better it is the more you want it.

i think you need to explore your sexuality most women are very into s*x especially young women. i think maybe he isnt giving you what youw ant or you have never experienced great s*x when you have there will never be an amount that is enough.

Answer 17

Your husband is the only one who can answer the question on how much to make him satisfied.  Talk to him.  Most men out in this world love s*x and crave it quite often.  If the woman is totally satisfied and her lover is awesome then the woman will crave it badly as well.  

Answer 18

I'm a woman and I don't agree with you. Sorry I need to have s*x regularly with my husband or I wouldn't be happy!

Why so many thumbs down?

Answer 19

It's extremely important. The most important number one issue as far as I'm concerned. I'm sorry but I need lots of it. hard and often. I just need that closeness that s*x brings. I've always needed it. How much is that, I can't really say. It varies. But when I want it, I don't want to be turned away. Sorta like waving a bone in front of a dog and pulling it away.

Not funny.

Answer 20

Everyone's s*x drive is different.  If you want to be a good wife to him and keep him satisfied (which is awesome by the way.. for the rest of you wives reading this, take notes!)

That being the case, you'll make his day by simply asking him.. "How often would you like me to F you?"

He'll appreciate the question and most likely answer honestly.  Then, just do it as much as he wants.

And as a side note, s*x isnt almost as important as food and water.  It's just as important.

Answer 21

it's important for both of you.

Some women find it acceptable to go without and others are like raving nymphs.

its not just s*x, it's a way of showing how much you feel for one another by physical means.

Mans basest instinct is s*x, he cannot stop himself and when this is denied him, he almost always gets cheesed off in one way or another.

you can't plan it or work out a rota, you can't have it only on saturday night or whenever you have planned it. It must be spontaneous and exciting, loving, passionate and fun and more than that, it must be enjoyed by Both of you.

work on it hun, he's your husband and he will love you for it.

Answer 22

Yes it is extremely important. And you are depressing me with your talk of you think most woman would agree. If me and my girl aren't having s*x than we are just friends. Time to move on. Plus I know it is built into men to be more aggressive it is called survival of the species. Sounds like from what you are saying that if that were up to woman it might not happen.

Answer 23

it is real important to my man!lol

Answer 24

its way more important than food and water! it is what drives us,it is the reason we work hard,play hard,have hard days & nights,mornings,,,do you see where im going with this,

Answer 25

yes, beacuse s*x is what keep men energized, s*x is what keep generation of family going, s*x is the best thing to do at night, s*x is the most satitify thing in the world,and s*x is what u want 2 do when u see a got girl, so s*x is the best way of keep a man happy

;-)

Answer 26

It's on our minds all day.

Answer 27

How often is enough to make him satisfied? When you ask and he says no, your there.

Answer 28

they want it everyday....day and night!!!! the more you give them the more they want!!! lol!!!

Answer 29

It's more important to me than it is to my husband. He always says we have too much s*x. I think he's full of sh*t.

Answer 30

well... im not married yet... i don't know if that's much of a difference. but my boyfriend and i have been together for a long time. and s*x isn't important to him at all. i think it honestly depends on the person. how ever for most people it seems like a have to.  

Answer 31

I can't speak for anyone else but myself, yes it is very important to me.